SpySappinMahSentry wrote:I know it can't be changed. What upsets me is that Pedosneedlovetoo made it sound like something we all want and should be proud to have.
And it is not a sexuality, it is a disease.
This is what I said and all of it is together
Firstly, stop hating yourself for it.
Secondly appreciate how lucky you are to know how wonderful children are when most parents have days of really hating them
Thirdly just see how much better life becomes for you when you accept that you cannot change and really would not want to even if you could.
I am saying if you already know you are a paedophile..stop as Gina says being so full of self loathing and pity.
I've been outed by the press and am hated by everybody I used to know, but as most of those people have all shouted abuse at their kids at some point of time that I have known them, I was pointing out that we as true paedophiles rarely if ever would do that.
We are lucky enough to know just how wonderful children are.
If you are saying that you are a paedophile who actually hates children then forget everything I said.
If being able to accept yourself for who you are and getting on with enjoying life is far too much for you to do, then there is very little anybody here can say to get you out of your funk.
Gina may be too polite to say so.....but what hope is there if you see it as a disease to be cured when virtually every so-called expert now sees it as a mental imbalance whilst a few more open minded individuals see it as a true sexuality.
There is no cure for being a paedophile, just your own self control and will of mind and body.