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Postby Broken Face » Sun Jan 11, 2009 7:05 pm

Do you think writing sex stories is a healthy outlet for someone with paraphilias? Or do you think it just reinforces unhealthy sexual fantasies?
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Postby Butterfly Faerie » Sun Jan 11, 2009 7:42 pm

I think it reinforces unhealthy sexual fantasy's.
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Postby Broken Face » Sun Jan 11, 2009 8:28 pm

I think you may be right. We're creatures of habit. Do you think it's possible to reprogram your mind?
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Postby BLueRibbon » Sun Jan 11, 2009 9:43 pm

Hi Broken Face,

You cannot change the subject or nature of your fantasies, nor should you worry about mere fantasies.

Sex stories are unlikely to encourage paraphilic fantasies (they may in fact act as a legitimate outlet), but you should ensure that they don't violate obscenity laws in your jurisdiction.
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Postby Broken Face » Sun Jan 11, 2009 9:56 pm

Well, I don't publish these stories or share them with anyone. In fact, I don't even save them. I delete them afterwards. But I worry that I may be encouraging these fantasies.
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Postby Broken Face » Sun Jan 11, 2009 9:58 pm

BLueRibbon wrote:Hi Broken Face,

You cannot change the subject or nature of your fantasies, nor should you worry about mere fantasies.


Is this true? Is it really impossible to change your sexual fantasies? :(
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Postby Butterfly Faerie » Mon Jan 12, 2009 12:08 am

Broken Face wrote:I think you may be right. We're creatures of habit. Do you think it's possible to reprogram your mind?



I'd say probably not, though I'm not 100% sure.
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Postby Broken Face » Mon Jan 12, 2009 12:10 am

Butterfly Faerie wrote:
Broken Face wrote:I think you may be right. We're creatures of habit. Do you think it's possible to reprogram your mind?



I'd say probably not, though I'm not 100% sure.


So, I'm just stuck with these thoughts? :(
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Postby Butterfly Faerie » Mon Jan 12, 2009 12:11 am

Broken Face wrote:
Butterfly Faerie wrote:
Broken Face wrote:I think you may be right. We're creatures of habit. Do you think it's possible to reprogram your mind?



I'd say probably not, though I'm not 100% sure.


So, I'm just stuck with these thoughts? :(



I don't know, it's possible, what are the thoughts exactly?
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Postby Broken Face » Mon Jan 12, 2009 12:12 am

Asuka wrote:
Broken Face wrote:Well, I don't publish these stories or share them with anyone. In fact, I don't even save them. I delete them afterwards. But I worry that I may be encouraging these fantasies.


What type of fantasies are they? Some paraphilas may be just mild kinks while others may be genuinely unhealthy for you.


I'd rather not say because I don't want to upset anyone. But they're not just mild kinks.
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