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by **Butterfly Faerie** » Mon Jan 12, 2009 12:18 am

Well the only thing that would be upsetting would be towards children or even animals, I'm assuming it's the latter.

How long have you had these thoughts ?

It's ok I can bet what they are... otherwise you would have told me it is not that.

To be honest I haven't heard of a pedophile saying that they can or even want to turn their thoughts to that of healthier thoughts.

Is it that you want to get the thoughts of children out of your head to that of someone whose your own age, or just happier thoughts like being on a beach?
Not sure what you are wanting to know.

by **BLueRibbon** » Mon Jan 12, 2009 12:59 am

Broken Face wrote:Is this true? Is it really impossible to change your sexual fantasies?

There is no way to alter a person's sexuality (whether the sexual interests are defined as a paraphilia or otherwise). If it were possible to change one's sexual fantasies, almost everyone would choose to be attracted to the people who are attracted to them. Life is not so simple.

Broken Face wrote:I'd rather not say because I don't want to upset anyone. But they're not just mild kinks.

If you are worried about upsetting someone by describing your fantasies, you can send me a private message. I am a (non-offending) paedophile, and I will not be upset or offended by any fantasy, even if your fantasies are unrelated to my own.

by **Broken Face** » Mon Jan 12, 2009 1:02 am

I am attracted to women my own age. But I also find myself attracted to teenage girls and, sometimes, even men. I don't want to feel this way. If you can replace negative thoughts with positive ones, why can't you replace unacceptable sexual fantasies with acceptable ones?

by **Butterfly Faerie** » Mon Jan 12, 2009 1:05 am

I don't know if it works that way or not unfortunately.

I have yet to mean someone who deals with paraphilia that can change the negative to the positive, I don't even know if that is suggested or not...

What about therapy? Thought about it?

by **Broken Face** » Mon Jan 12, 2009 1:10 am

I could never talk about that sort of thing with a therapist. It would be too embarrassing. Not to mention, she'd probably think I was a monster and have me thrown in jail. :oops:

by **BLueRibbon** » Mon Jan 12, 2009 1:15 am

Broken Face wrote:If you can replace negative thoughts with positive ones, why can't you replace unacceptable sexual fantasies with acceptable ones?

I don't believe that negative thoughts can be replaced with positive thoughts. There is no evidence to suggest that "unacceptable" sexual fantasies can be replaced by "acceptable" sexual fantasies.

Butterfly Fairie wrote:What about therapy? Thought about it?

That will not have any impact upon his fantasies.

by **Broken Face** » Mon Jan 12, 2009 1:17 am

BLueRibbon wrote:
Broken Face wrote:Is this true? Is it really impossible to change your sexual fantasies?

There is no way to alter a person's sexuality (whether the sexual interests are defined as a paraphilia or otherwise). If it were possible to change one's sexual fantasies, almost everyone would choose to be attracted to the people who are attracted to them. Life is not so simple.

Then maybe I should just kill myself.

by **Broken Face** » Mon Jan 12, 2009 1:28 am

But how do I change? I need answers.

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