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Re: what does this mean?

Postby JackM678 » Mon Nov 25, 2013 8:44 pm

Frankie123 wrote:hi

i honestly want a sexual relationship with a girl, and i am also a lot more comfortable around them

So do you think your interest in little girls is a romantic crush or just a yearning for affection?

i think my interest in little girls is more of a romantic crush, i just see them as better life partners

i do suffer from social anxiety, but not low self esteem, im very confident, but if im around new people, i find it hard to speak to them,

do you believe in the frontal lobe theory?
i remember falling down a staircase and i have a dent in my skull in the front,
do you think that caused my paedophilia?

thanks


Well if you're fine with keeping distance from little girls as you know that mutual attraction and romantic desire is impossible then you can just find a way to move forward with your life and fill your emptiness with something else that is more appropriate.

There is no shame in being able to accept and feel your feelings, just as long as you know kids won't feel that same way about you, and it appears that you do. Do you just find the idea of a sexual relationship with a little girl appealing, or do you actually find their bodies sexually attractive?
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Re: what does this mean?

Postby HowardCL » Mon Nov 25, 2013 9:15 pm

I have always felt really uncomfortable around adult women and perhaps that is the reason that I was directed towards young girls and being attracted to them, yet that is just me and you could be totally different.
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Re: what does this mean?

Postby Frankie123 » Tue Nov 26, 2013 9:59 am

hi

i think little girls are better life partners because they are beautiful and they don't judge you for not wearing the latest fashion and i personally think that they are more intelligent than most adults think

i find a relationship with a little girl is very appealing, and i also find their bodies sexually attractive

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Re: what does this mean?

Postby JackM678 » Tue Nov 26, 2013 9:08 pm

Well, if you aren't in a position where you are around kids you can always take a chance and talk to a psychologist about what you're going through for help if you feel you need it. If you are just finding them attractive but don't feel any emptiness due to not being with them then I think you're fine.
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