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Re: Pedophiles, if you had a daughter

Postby HowardCL » Wed Oct 16, 2013 4:55 pm

I think honestly if I had a daughter that I would be very overly protective of her and even though I am an exclusive pedophile I still think that I would want her to be raised without any sort of contact with other pedophiles and my desires for her I would try and shut it a bottle and throw out 500 miles out to sea and never ever act on any of those. I think that desires and feelings change when you have kids and since they are from you, the whole concept of being attracted to children changes in my opinion.

Though I think that same mentality should be viewed towards all children and not just your own.
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Re: Pedophiles, if you had a daughter

Postby ElKahn » Thu Oct 17, 2013 1:51 am

HowardCL wrote:I think honestly if I had a daughter that I would be very overly protective of her and even though I am an exclusive pedophile I still think that I would want her to be raised without any sort of contact with other pedophiles and my desires for her I would try and shut it a bottle and throw out 500 miles out to sea and never ever act on any of those. I think that desires and feelings change when you have kids and since they are from you, the whole concept of being attracted to children changes in my opinion.

Though I think that same mentality should be viewed towards all children and not just your own.


I'd find it impossible to feel feelings for a child made of my own flesh and blood. Maybe I could be attracted to a young female cousin, but not a young sister or daughter or niece.
Don't know, I'd find it real hard. I wouldn't need to control any desire as I wouldn't have any desire for my own child.
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Re: Pedophiles, if you had a daughter

Postby Gerste » Sat Dec 14, 2013 4:40 pm

I'd be very protective of my daughters, yes. But that protection would not act as a cloak to over-surveil them. I would allow them privacy. Aren't there any boylovers in these forums--especially female ones?
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Re: Pedophiles, if you had a daughter

Postby pedo_dido » Thu Mar 06, 2014 10:58 am

Thou shall always be the protectors. As pedophiles, you know best how to spot other pedos. You're experts in this field. It takes one to know one.

Use this curse for good.

Like Blade, the daywalker. You're a vampire, but you kill vampires.
I am a virtuous pedophile. I am a nice guy. I am not a monster. I am not a criminal. I use my curse for good. I am the Will Graham of perverts.
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Re: Pedophiles, if you had a daughter

Postby Endymion » Thu Mar 06, 2014 1:06 pm

I'm protective of my daughter, and my son. Most people these days are a little overprotective, to the detriment of their children's well-being (teaching them by example that all adults are not to be trusted, for instance). I have caught guys checking out my daughter, and I just take that as a compliment and move on. They won't get anywhere near her while I'm around, and I'd beat the living cr*p out of them if they tried, but you can't stop people from looking at people they find attractive, so no point in getting stressed about it. Once I caught a guy photographing my daughter and I called the police. At the end of the day, all the police could do is have a word with him (strictly speaking it's not illegal to take photos of people in a public place, and though it could qualify as a 'breach of the peace' offence, the police basically told me that 'breach of the peace' is so minor it's hardly worth the effort). Nonetheless, it scared the guy, and he now has a note on his record so that if any related offence (e.g. if he's found with CP on his computer) crops up they will be aware of that incident.

Ive been extremely cautious and selective with child-care providers, and lucky to find the very best in this regard. But there's more to being a good dad than just preventing the threat of sexual abuse. There are other dangers out there: traffic, bullying, physical and emotional abuse, etc. etc.
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Re: Pedophiles, if you had a daughter

Postby YouthRightsRadical » Sat Mar 08, 2014 1:10 am

pedo_dido wrote:Thou shall always be the protectors. As pedophiles, you know best how to spot other pedos. You're experts in this field. It takes one to know one.

Use this curse for good.

Like Blade, the daywalker. You're a vampire, but you kill vampires.

Blade was a murderous psycho. Self-hating and emotionally crippled, the guy spends his time hunting down and murdering people who remind him of parts of himself he doesn't like. That isn't a positive thing to be.

Self-acceptance would've been far healthier for him.
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Re: Pedophiles, if you had a daughter

Postby pedo_dido » Sat Mar 08, 2014 1:32 am

He wears a trench coat at night. Sound like me to me. He has guns and a sword. Sounds cool to me. Oh wait, you like Edward dontcha?
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Re: Pedophiles, if you had a daughter

Postby YouthRightsRadical » Sat Mar 08, 2014 1:49 am

pedo_dido wrote:He wears a trench coat at night. Sound like me to me. He has guns and a sword. Sounds cool to me. Oh wait, you like Edward dontcha?

I prefer Father Abel Nightroad. No angst over his nature, only his past actions, gets on with saving people, and doesn't judge the vampires who are just getting on with their lives.
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Re: Pedophiles, if you had a daughter

Postby geronamo0015 » Mon Feb 02, 2015 10:55 am

callano wrote:If you had a daughter, would you be possessive and over-protective of her around other men? What if you knew suspected another guy was one and was showing her attention? Would you understand what he feels or want her for yourself only?

Or, how about you knew a girl and another guy was around that was trying for her attention and approval, how would you act or feel? Just curious..


I would be very much like that; would be extra cautious but also promote healthy independent personality, i feel I would like to have a close relationship so that we can share any issues and so if i had a daughter she would feel safe to talk to me about anything, also I would not put myself in the situation to be around any other men except my best mates.

I have a few nieces right now, and the oldest one is 12 and I have been there literally since day 1, and I have never ever had one bad thought about her, because we are so close we are like father and daughter, but her friend on the other hand is a different story i have thoughts but never said or done anything about it, i am able to control myself or as said above just think about the friend when i am alone in bed :D
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Re: Pedophiles, if you had a daughter

Postby Maligan12 » Mon Feb 02, 2015 5:21 pm

pedo_dido wrote:Thou shall always be the protectors. As pedophiles, you know best how to spot other pedos. You're experts in this field. It takes one to know one.

Use this curse for good.

Like Blade, the daywalker. You're a vampire, but you kill vampires.


I don't think that's true. Just like how gays don't have an internal gaydar I don't think being a pedophile helps you pick other pedophiles.

Or does it? Gaydar might be real for all I know I just assumed it stereotyping. What do I know?
Let's judge each other on our actions.
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