Are you a boy lover or a girl lover?

xoPinkerbelleox wrote: I don't like sexualized children.

Can you give examples of this?
What exactly is a "sexualized child"

How can you tell the difference between a virgin and a girl who's been sexualized, by incest for example?

How can you tell the difference, and what about it don't you like, compared to cute/innocent children.

Tabs wrote:

xoPinkerbelleox wrote: I don't like sexualized children.

Can you give examples of this?
What exactly is a "sexualized child"

How can you tell the difference between a virgin and a girl who's been sexualized, by incest for example?

How can you tell the difference, and what about it don't you like, compared to cute/innocent children.

Ever heard of JonBenet Ramsey? That's an example of a sexualized child. A sexualized child is one who dresses like an adult, who has in certain ways acquired characteristics pertained to adults only.

wasn't asking you

Tabs wrote:wasn't asking you

Hey! I don't take kindly to being dismissed around here! And I'm sorry if this is a thread where people answer questions. Or is it not?

Take tabs implied insults with a grain of salt. You really make yourself hard to like sometimes Tabs. That being said, I have enjoyed your post on this topic.

sorry. not trying to dismiss your input, just curious about the OP experience.

Lots of websites made by boy-lovers and girl-lovers out there (with perfectly legal material and content.) Having seen these, I'm of the opinion a self-avowed B/G lover is a very different animal than trenchcoat wearing perv hiding in the bushes at a playground watching kids fondling themself. It's almost like they're delusional how into the boys or girls they are. They write reams of poetry, make custom art, and gush like is hard to believe over how beautiful they are yadda yadda. I think I just like the fantasy of it in some circumstances, but I can't relate to actual B/G lover mindsets. If only for how over-the-top sweet and Disney'esque they get it makes me wanna laugh or puke. That's actually a worthwhile question, should anything be read into a person wanting to dress up like a Disney character at one of the parks to work with little kids? One might assume they like kids, but at what point does liking them turn into loving or into pedophilia? Obviously few if any employees at a Disney park end up molesting children (or we'd have heard about it and speak of Disney as being a refuge for pedophiles like the Catholic Church is) but why do we give those people a pass while those who identify as B/G lovers are automatically condemned without any actual review of behaviour? And sexually active pedophiles are breaking the law yet not synonymous with B/G lovers.

Sorry Tabs.

HesDeltanCaptain wrote:Lots of websites made by boy-lovers and girl-lovers out there (with perfectly legal material and content.) Having seen these, I'm of the opinion a self-avowed B/G lover is a very different animal than trenchcoat wearing perv hiding in the bushes at a playground watching kids fondling themself. It's almost like they're delusional how into the boys or girls they are. They write reams of poetry, make custom art, and gush like is hard to believe over how beautiful they are yadda yadda. I think I just like the fantasy of it in some circumstances, but I can't relate to actual B/G lover mindsets. If only for how over-the-top sweet and Disney'esque they get it makes me wanna laugh or puke. That's actually a worthwhile question, should anything be read into a person wanting to dress up like a Disney character at one of the parks to work with little kids? One might assume they like kids, but at what point does liking them turn into loving or into pedophilia? Obviously few if any employees at a Disney park end up molesting children (or we'd have heard about it and speak of Disney as being a refuge for pedophiles like the Catholic Church is) but why do we give those people a pass while those who identify as B/G lovers are automatically condemned without any actual review of behaviour? And sexually active pedophiles are breaking the law yet not synonymous with B/G lovers.

Haha lol. I gush like it's hard to believe how beautiful boys are and yadda yadda. The reason this happens is because those people aren't saying they are pedophiles, so people don't think twice. If you say you like children you can get misinterpreted easily!

Like I tell people all the time.

There are good lovers and bad lovers.
People who know how to do sex right because they have empathy and sensitivity and compassion and love. While other people, sociopaths, have no idea how to please anybody else so they are bad lovers.

If you are a bad lover, you are not allowed to be a pedophile.
Because you're a monster and if you ever have sex you'll only cause pain and suffering in the world.

But if you are a good lover, only then are you allowed to even consider the idea of being intimate with an innocent virginal person.

Does that make sense to anyone?

Another way to put it, if you are Michael Jackson, then it might be okay, but most of the time, no it's not okay because you're a jerk off who doesn't know how to make love properly.
See how that works?
Does anybody not see it?

-- Fri Aug 23, 2013 12:19 am --

Simontheo wrote:Hey! I don't take kindly to being dismissed around here! And I'm sorry if this is a thread where people answer questions. Or is it not?

Wasn't jon bennet ramsey like 5 years old when she was murdered?

are you telling me she was sexualized?
because of make-up?
not sure i understand you.