My Ex HPD grabbed my crotch in a Public setting....

joliver54 wrote:Thanks AW !!! It Just stIll hurts thinking that...other than her husband...I was the only one...which apparently I was not. She always asked me when we were together..."Do you think we will ever get married?". A part of me refuses to believe that she has done the same with other guys. And a big part of me wants to text her...even after 10 ten weeks of NC.... She has definitely got a grip on me.

You're married right?

What's more impartant?
Your wife/family or some chick???

What will suite you better down the road? A fling or your wife who loves you and has deticated herself to sharing a life with you?

She was stroking more than your 'Winkey' there, she has you by the balls in her devious mind fu*k- you need to cut out of the fog of that and see your life clearly for what it is before you.

Option A) you pine for a croth grabbing fling in the pants and disrupt your marriage by thinking of 'what could have been'
Option B) you take it for what it's worth (a fun time) and hold the memory as that alone (a wicked night you'll never forget) and focus your life on your future with a woman who truly loves you and has given you X# of years together because of her love.

Hunny, you got played by a chick who does this kinda stuff for fun.
I don't mess with the minds of married men, that's not right! Breaking up a family is WRONG and she's a C*NT for doing that! If she knew you were married she should have stayed away from you or had sex without the mind fu*k- that wasn't fair of her and I don't condone that!

Sex is sex but once you take it into lies, deception and manipulation of someone 's mind it becomes something different. She shouldn't have said the marriage stuff and made you feel that way if you're married- that was very wrong of her and you need to stop with the false fantasy she painted for you and see that it was nothing more than a pack of lies to suite HER and harm YOU!

If I saw that woman I'd slap her- that's not right!!!

You got used and abused- you need to let it go and think about your life- not her

My 2c

Thanks so much AW...that's exactly what I needed to hear ! If you have time please read my previous post..."Help 911...can't quit thinking about my exHpd".
You have no idea how much you helped. I just gotta realize I was played for a fool....

AliceWonders wrote:
Sex is sex but once you take it into lies, deception and manipulation of someone 's mind it becomes something different. She shouldn't have said the marriage stuff and made you feel that way if you're married- that was very wrong of her and you need to stop with the false fantasy she painted for you and see that it was nothing more than a pack of lies to suite HER and harm YOU!

This is what differentiates emotional vampires from typical promiscuous women...they want your SOUL

J-54

She sounds exactly like my HPD/NPD. They know they can control many guys doing that kind of stuff.

I guarantee you there were others.

They even brag about all their "boyfriends".

Be very glad you didn't throw away your life for her.

She always would tell me what she was thinking or what was on her mind. She told me about our night in the hotel room..."This guy knows what he is doing" and then the next day when I met her for coffee she told me that she thought..."This guy is MINE". Creepy ??? Classic HPD ?????

Re reading some old posts here. ....wow....have I grown. ....!

It's good that you've grown, Freeatlast. Looking through this thread I can see that the HPD forum has grown too. Please don't be offended at me locking it.