Let's be honest about how HPD our society really is!

Wow Cervante!!! Good to know I am your favorite HPD!! That really warms my heart.

Scarlett1939 wrote:Wow Cervante!!! Good to know I am your favorite HPD!! That really warms my heart.

Well, actually you are the only HPD I know, so you don't have to face much competition. But you may still think that you are very special. Perhaps that will even bring you to spell my username correctly in the future.

Don't forget to beat your children when they secretly try to masturbate. It's a sin, you hear me? A sin. They will go to hell for that. Really.

Sorry Cirvante.... Didn't mean to spell your name wrong. Yes I will still consider myself special and your favorite because I must be. You aren't hpd and you aren't a victim of hpd but yet you insist on responding to my posts on this board.

You are just 19 but yet you are the expert on raising children and boast of how you are so glad your parents weren't like me. Well tell me my friend, can you get me a copy of the manual that your parents used to raise you because I want to make sure to follow your advice, turn my children loose, and let them have all the birth control to their hearts desire, have them try drugs even with the possibility of a life time of addiction....these are the things I want for my children. And the the best part that your parents must have done is to ensure a PD for their child. Make sure you highlight that in the manual because that is most important. I think your parents should get a lifetime achievement award for the expert parenting they must have done for you. So to agree with you.....yes... Good thing your parents weren't like me.

Cirvante...you are 19. When you grow up a little and have a few life experiences, then you can come talk to me of what a horrible mother I am for protecting my children.

You are 19....that explains it all..... .

Well I don't know about the rest of you, but with that post, Scarlet "had me at hello"!

Love it

Cirvante...

I will respond to your first post now about how your classmates not getting pregnant is supposed to promote something like a billboard for birth control.

There is the old saying that all girls are having sex, it is just the ones that get pregnant are the ones that got caught. Well, they may not have got pregnant, but I guarantee a lot of them ended up with STDs if they were having sex. Condoms don't take care of it all and there are so many kids with HPV right now it isn't even funny. Girls are having hysterectomies in early 20's as a result of the cancer that set in after getting HPV. So what if they were on the pill. The pill is just BIRTH CONTROL, not STD control. So, you think what you want about me. I will stick to doing just what I am in keeping my girls good. I don't know why you would want me to do otherwise. Why would a person who feels nothing, want that for someone else? Just a thought.

And, good for you that you tried drugs at 14 and your parents let you decide for yourself that they weren't for you. Not everyone is that strong to do that. Do you know that different people from different races have grooves in their brains that some are more proned to becoming addicted to drugs and alcohol more than other races? That is true and I have had training on it. In the area I live in our state is at the very top 3 states for meth. There are drug busts all the time in this area for meth. Meth is not a substance that can be recovered from with the stuff they are using now since the cold pills are off the shelf, and they are using cleaning products and amonia or whatever to put into their bodies. Don't you think even one time of using that might fry the brain just a little??

I have talked to my daughter about birth control, but I am not going to serve it up to her on a platter and tell her.. be well and be safe... that would be stupid. that gives permission...

what book did you read that says kids are SUPPOSED to have sex??

I am way better a parent than mine were to me. My decisions are always based on my daughters well being and that they aren't left to where something could happen to them. I realize you are only 19, and that you are a guy, but little girls are kidnapped far more than boys and why would a parent not know where their children are at all times? That is what we are made for. I realize as a guy that you could never know what it is like to carry another life in your belly, but it is the best blessing that I could ever have been given and I don't take it lightly. They are mine to defend, protect, provide for, and love from the moment they were in my belly. You won't win an argument with me on what should and be shouldn't done for them until you have walked in my shoes. I really hope that someday you have children and you will look back and understand what I am talking about.

And yes, I realize that you still have to play the part of "I don't care" or "I would care, if I could" and whatever your SPD allows you to NOT FEEL, but you could come out of a lot of that INDIFFERENCE that you so play in this world and not be so cynical. Not attacking you, just pointing out the obvious. If everyone else should make better choices including HPDs, you could make a better choice to be more productive and not just try to counteract what everyone else says and do the "attacking" as I have seen you do on this board.

You don't fool me though and yes I do see the hidden meaning behind your facade. You want what everyone else wants. You want to be happy, but it is easier to be miserable and alone. Trust me, I know best what it is to be a pessimist. I have lived that myself and told myself that it isn't right if I feel happy. Deny yourself any happiness because you will always feel disappointed later because you don't deserve to be happy.

Cirvante... I would hug you IF I COULD!! ha .... I don't like to hug for that very reason. I am three feet of space kind of woman. I probably have issues too!! ha... yes, I am being sarcastic about the probably part.

You should never underestimate the power of a mother......... so no hard feelings in my words to you. And I don't take offense to your words, only trying to enlighten you on reality. And you can't hurt me by your words... I gave birth to three children with ZERO pain meds.. ha.. nothing can hurt me.