by Johnny-Jack » Wed Oct 03, 2012 3:03 pm
I think the order of meeting alters is different for everyone, so anybody arriving in any order is possible.
The whole issue of one alter being an adult version of a younger alter, or vice versa, is interesting. No doubt, there are connections between alters that can be virtually anything. There does seem to be pairing in many systems, with poles like good/bad, adult/child, male/female, etc. There are some systems where there are triplets or even larger sets of parallel alters.
My own 'family tree' is not linear and probably nobody else's is either. Many alters "branched off" from alters who weren't me, but most alters tend to be connected to me, the host who arrived in the body at age 2.5. There is one young alter, Carter, who felt so much like me (the John alter), me as youngish, that I didn't recognize him as a separate alter, despite the fact that he had come into the body a few times during emotional overwhelms or while journaling. My assumption was that I had reverted to my younger self rather than that he was a different alter. When anyone else has taken over, each has distinctly felt to be "not me." Still, he isn't a young version of me as an alter, in fact, I predate his arrival at age 3. But he feels more "me" than anyone else, he certainly feels familiar. My guess about the reason is that he remained nearby and influenced me throughout life rather than that he went into hibernation.
Dx = DID. My blog. My personal Periodic Table of 78 alters.
Ab Ad Al Am An Ar As Ba Be Br Ca Cb Ch Cl Cm Cn Co Cp Ct Cu Cv D Eb Ed Er Es F Fl Ga Gd Go Gr Gw He Hk Hs Ht I J Jh Jk Jn Jy Ke Ki Kn Ky Li Lu Md Mi Mt Mx Mz Ne Ni O Pe Pi Q Ra Rd Ry Sc Se Sh Sk Sx Tk Ty U V Wa Wi X Y Ze Zn
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