the system's sexuality?

so...Lev's been really into bi-pride and stuff and he made the point that we technically are bisexual...because our body is a girl and (including me) there are three boys in the system...he's been talking to a girl we've known for a long time and he has permission from Victoria's boyfriend and her that they can date if they want...i dont really think its wrong and nobody else involved does...i just wanted to know if its wrong to say that we are bisexual..? our mom's having a hard time with dealing with us coming out as bi eventho she knows about all of us...i feel bad about having her go through this...and i want to know if its okay or normal or something...im just kinda uncomfortable

i think it wouldnt be seeing as you like males, however the males in your sytem like females although your body is female there still "men" so therefore i dont think it counts but i dont really know

victoria's boyfriend understands we're all different people that's why he's allowing Lev to have relations with this girl but im just confused...ahahaha

I think you are quite young. It may take you a few years to sort out your sexual identity and orientation. Don't be in a great rush to label yourself as one thing or another. Time will tell.

We've never system-labelled with regards to sexuality. I am bisexual, our main is homoromantic asexual, Sabrina is a lesbian, Ciardha is pansexual. Most inside are asexual it seems, but there is a range across every possible "label".

I don't mean to sound rude, but why does your system have to have a label? We are all separate people and so we all have our own labels, rather than a group one. Just the same as if we were a group of friends in our own bodies, we wouldn't label the group, but have our own identities.

Kerry

i.am.no.one wrote:i think it wouldnt be seeing as you like males, however the males in your sytem like females although your body is female there still "men" so therefore i dont think it counts but i dont really know

i think to the out side world it is bi but to you all personally its not being bi so i dont think it wrong to say your bi as such unless you want to explaine it to every one.

The thing is, when sexual identity and/or sexual orientation are divided between parts, how the rest of the world sees us does not match well with our subjective experience. As far as the world can see I am female and heterosexual. But I have a male part who is homosexual.

so...to the outside world..we're bisexual...inside we're all straight tho i know that but i'm kind of a new alter and its just one of the many things ive been wondering we aren't labeling ourselves im not in a hurry to do anything...i actually think i might be bi or gay, but i dont want to cause trouble and things are so chaotic that i'm really in no rush not that it matters because itll look heterosexual if i have a bf or whatever ahahaha it's just not really important i guess, its just the way Crona explained everything was so confusing

Our system's sexuality is female homosexual, since that's what most of us identify as. However, we have quite a few bisexuals, straight males and females, and asexual people. I don't think labeling the system as a whole matters much, really.
~Rage

I still haven't figured out what our sexuality is. V is a lesbian, W is bisexual, Kohr is asexual, I'm asexual, Nivis isn't old enough, Dawn is bisexual. So for now i just say I'm asexual. Maybe I'll develop a sexual attraction sometime and be able to label mine without feeling bad