This is not a Democracy!

Una
My children are grown and I'm sure they would not have known the others by name.I'm sure they would have said something by now.I know my wife doesn't but they could tell if I pointed out past events and then they would know the difference by my actions and activities.We have been co-conscious and had our system in place before getting married.
Una,the way my,our, system has worked,for so many decades, is that the others ,for the most part,do not just pop out at their will.We work together and their input is listened to but the system only works when we all work together.See that is what happened,one was acting and popping out on it's own.I keep tight control.I do try to meet the needs of the others.The little one has his toys,crayons,helps and likes doing art. Clair gets to do things that she likes, working with children,I keep my hair long for her,and we do art together which she really likes.I got a new sewing machine for the wife,Clair wants to learn to sew.The older male likes doing technical things,computers,radios,these kinds of things and doing the manly stuff.
The little one is wanting legos right now this maybe a little harder to explain than the little cars planes,spaceships,etc.
We all like to read and read a lot on all of our different topics of interest.What I have learned if you let each one run off with the body and leave the others out it just gets worse or at least that is the way it has worked for us.We either work as a group or it doesn't work at all.Then things get very crazy and some times dangerous.
Regards
Watcheroflights