Hi everyone, my system has been profoundly struggling and we don't know how to care for ourselves anymore. This has been a chronic problem, but it's been especially bad recently. Several years ago, we lived in a residential treatment center, and we had a printout of about 30 daily tasks (obviously more than the basic ADLs) to use as a model for positive daily functioning. I saved the printout for after discharge, but right now it's in a storage unit in a different country, so I was wondering if anyone here had something similar to share. We just really need some help

Everything in our life is falling apart because we can't manage our feelings or take care of ourselves, and we're completely alone in our recovery with no family or supportive peers.
Anything at all helps. Thanks for your time.