We saw our T today and we talked about why this time of year is so hard and she said if I can choose a new name I can choose a new birthday. We really like this idea and we spoke to Ozalces and he thinks it's a good idea as well. So we have decided our not really our birthday, birthday will be May day. Because it is a Bank Holiday and so we don't have to work and it isn't near any triggery days and it's not usually to hot then because we also dislike heat. And also there is time between now and then so we can forget if we change our minds and decide its silly. But we like the idea that we can self determine everything in our lives even when our birthday is. Z is rolling her eyes because she thinks we are being overly emotional and making decisions based on emotion rather then logic. We are feeling the best we have felt in months even though we cried tons so we don't care.
That is all bye bye (the littles)