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Potty training an alter?

Postby devildog06305 » Wed Mar 01, 2017 6:29 pm

So I just found out that my youngest alter (Elisabeth age 4) isn't potty trained.

Is this common?
How do I go about potty training her?

She doesn't know she's in a male body and I don't want to let her find out yet if at all, I'm not sure how she would handel that.  So how do I potty training her without letting her see down there?
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Re: Potty training an alter?

Postby Una+ » Wed Mar 01, 2017 7:20 pm

The body is adult and the solution to this problem is trivial: an adult remains co-conscious with the little and takes care of business in the usual adult manner.

Now if this thread is really about an "age play" fetish, devildog06305, please take it elsewhere.
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Re: Potty training an alter?

Postby devildog06305 » Wed Mar 01, 2017 8:27 pm

Una+, I wish it was just some fetish because its about to cost me my job. I am co-conscious, and I take her to the bathroom and do what needs then take her back to play. The problem is that she doesnt hold it at all and I have to use the restroom a lot more than I did before.
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Re: Potty training an alter?

Postby devildog06305 » Wed Mar 01, 2017 8:53 pm

Also, who does age play with them self? Is that even a thing?

This is Amara on of hiss alters, you seam to forget that when dealing with our condition almost anything is possible. So perhaps you shouldn't be so quick to judge
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Re: Potty training an alter?

Postby Violarules » Wed Mar 01, 2017 9:34 pm

Una+ wrote:The body is adult and the solution to this problem is trivial: an adult remains co-conscious with the little and takes care of business in the usual adult manner.

Now if this thread is really about an "age play" fetish, devildog06305, please take it elsewhere.


I don't think it is an age play fetish, and agree with Devildog that you shouldn't make such assumptions.

Anyway, to address Devildog, I think hiding the fact that the body is male will be a problem in the long run, so I think you should potty train your alter while easing her into the fact that body is male. Do you have any other alters that can help the little in question cope and adjust?
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Re: Potty training an alter?

Postby devildog06305 » Wed Mar 01, 2017 10:02 pm

Thank you Violarules, I have 2 other female alters, one is 8 (Sarah) and the other is 25 (Amara). Amara saids she wants to help and so does Sarah, I'm just worried that Lizy won't be able to handle it. But I agree that I should ease her into knowing.
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Re: Potty training an alter?

Postby Violarules » Thu Mar 02, 2017 6:06 am

I suspect that it will freak her out at first, but I'm glad to hear your other alters are willing to help. Maybe they have some method they used to cope with the fact the body is male that they can pass onto Lizy, that will help her cope. I hope it goes well.
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Re: Potty training an alter?

Postby devildog06305 » Thu Mar 02, 2017 2:52 pm

Alright, we're going to give it a go, so we'll post again with an update once we get started.
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Re: Potty training an alter?

Postby Una+ » Wed Mar 08, 2017 4:41 pm

Contact with reality is important, so bite the bullet and do it like an adult.

Also, why is she out playing at work? That generally is not a good idea.
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Re: Potty training an alter?

Postby devildog06305 » Thu Mar 09, 2017 2:38 pm

Your just a ray of sunshinr aren't you Una+. Please do us a favor, if you don't have anything positive to say just don't say anything. -Amara
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