Im tired of being a protector. Is it possible to change it?

Colher-6 wrote:Leon says it's like living with a bunch of slobs and always having to do the washing up. If you're not worried about living in a sty for a while, just stop doing it. It will be awful for a time. but eventually the others will need plates and cutlery so they'll learn to start picking up the slack.

Yeah, I'm all for that. But in our case, other people generally don't pick up the slack, especially the ones who should have been doing so in the first place. There's been a tiny bit of progress of late, but it's going to take a loooooooooooooong time before things run as they should.

Laura and others