We are trying to hear all the selves and all their stories but not really sure how to do it. It doesn't help that our main person is gone a lot of the time... for about the last month. Maybe longer. I am similar to her, but not her. And everyone likes her. I tell myself that she is the one they all want but that's probably just a story too. We are all valid. All our stories are valid. That is what my T says. That is what I tell myself when time turns upside down.