New start

Cirvante wrote:

Twistermind wrote:@Cirvante: It seems to me that someone won´t recive an invitation for the avoidants´party!

Who would want to go to a party full of sulking people? Wait, who would want to go to a party in the first place? I think you get where I'm going with this ...

You'd LOVE the party dude. Becuase I have a great party game just for you. Bobbing for apples in the toilet. You get to go first.

Bright eyes wrote:Hey guys.
My last day of work tomorrow.
I start uni on Monday (again).
I'm hoping I can stick at it this time and I won't let my anxiety get the better of me.
I swear I'm the most self conscience/paranoid man in the world sometimes.

I was just wondering if you could give me some kind words or some advice.

Back on topic. Don't be afraid to drop any classes that you hate. That's how I got through college. I sat in on lots of classes that I wasn't signed up for. If they looked good I would see if I could get signed up and drop the classes that I didn't like.

Parador wrote:You'd LOVE the party dude. Becuase I have a great party game just for you. Bobbing for apples in the toilet. You get to go first.

Wait, wouldn't there be a problem with that? How can we play fun toilet games when the toilet stalls are all occupied with crying and sulking people who aren't planning on leaving there before the party ends. Seriously, you gotta think of something else.

Cirvante wrote:

Parador wrote:You'd LOVE the party dude. Becuase I have a great party game just for you. Bobbing for apples in the toilet. You get to go first.

Wait, wouldn't there be a problem with that? How can we play fun toilet games when the toilet stalls are all occupied with crying and sulking people who aren't planning on leaving there before the party ends. Seriously, you gotta think of something else.

I don't think the crying and sulking people would want to stay in the bathroom too long... not after those of us who drank too much to loosen ourselves up come racing in to use the toilets

Cirvante wrote:

Parador wrote:You'd LOVE the party dude. Becuase I have a great party game just for you. Bobbing for apples in the toilet. You get to go first.

Wait, wouldn't there be a problem with that? How can we play fun toilet games when the toilet stalls are all occupied with crying and sulking people who aren't planning on leaving there before the party ends. Seriously, you gotta think of something else.

Who are the sulking people? Avoidant people, honey, are really much more supportive and understanding that you suppouse we are. I advise you to behave as a good extrovert squizod, give your good advises that I read in some of your posts and use your good manners with people in this forum. Ok? Come on, I know that you can do better things than being so rude.
Don´t worry about bobbing the apples. I know where I can buy a chocolate and marzipan cake and you don´t know how dangerous I can be with a cake in my hands.
Look, I tell you what Parador says: I don´t mind anything insensitive that you can tell me. I´m too old, but I care for others.

TO THE TOPIC!
Bright-Eyes! Tell us how are you? Take in mind, that you always can left the course, but at least try it. I have seen my back to school as an opportunity to go on my therapy, with real people, with people that I have to see every day.
No matters if you have to hide in a bathroom from time to time, no matters is someone say an insensitive word or comment. It´s not a problem of you. It probably a problem of their narrow brains.

twistermind wrote:Who are the sulking people? Avoidant people, honey, are really much more supportive and understanding that you suppouse we are. I advise you to behave as a good extrovert squizod, give your good advises that I read in some of your posts and use your good manners with people in this forum. Ok? Come on, I know that you can do better things than being so rude.
Don´t worry about bobbing the apples. I know where I can buy a chocolate and marzipan cake and you don´t know how dangerous I can be with a cake in my hands.
Look, I tell you what Parador says: I don´t mind anything insensitive that you can tell me. I´m too old, but I care for others.

It's not about whether or not I can be supportive and give good advise, but rather about whether feel like it or not. If proper social interaction is not absolutely necessary, I will mostly decide my behaviour on a whim. It doesn't mean anything to me, so one moment I can be the nice guy and another moment I can be a complete asshole ... to the same person. And no, I won't stop being insensitive from time to time. I just don't see any sense in doing so.

You should come and troll the Schizoid forums again, AvPD people are all the same, and therefor, boring. These are words from experience.


I couldn't resist commenting on your comment regarding Parador though Twistermind, that man is far from "Uncaring because he is to old". One of the most easily inticed people i've met to date on these forums. (Yes, more so then Cirvante !!).

Eric_Lee wrote:You should come and troll the Schizoid forums again, AvPD people are all the same, and therefor, boring. These are words from experience.

The schizoid forum part became boring lately, because there is hardly any new interesting posts every day. And you have to give it to the avoidants, they are active. ^^

Cirvante wrote:

twistermind wrote:Who are the sulking people? Avoidant people, honey, are really much more supportive and understanding that you suppouse we are. I advise you to behave as a good extrovert squizod, give your good advises that I read in some of your posts and use your good manners with people in this forum. Ok? Come on, I know that you can do better things than being so rude.
Don´t worry about bobbing the apples. I know where I can buy a chocolate and marzipan cake and you don´t know how dangerous I can be with a cake in my hands.
Look, I tell you what Parador says: I don´t mind anything insensitive that you can tell me. I´m too old, but I care for others.

It's not about whether or not I can be supportive and give good advise, but rather about whether feel like it or not. If proper social interaction is not absolutely necessary, I will mostly decide my behaviour on a whim. It doesn't mean anything to me, so one moment I can be the nice guy and another moment I can be a complete asshole ... to the same person. And no, I won't stop being insensitive from time to time. I just don't see any sense in doing so.

What´s your problem, honey? Don´t twist my words. I have never said that you were a nice guy. Perhaps in you private life, you are. I only said that as a good student of human behaviour, you should know how to behave in an advpd forum. You know how an avoidant is, no?

Eh, Eric. Welcome to the AvdPD forum.
I hope you won´t use your inverse phychology