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Postby rainbowsky » Thu Feb 19, 2009 4:46 am

Hi Asuka. You don't know me, but I've been lurking these boards for a while now and when I read this thread I just had to sign up and post here. You're probably one of the top posters in the APD sub-forum, so this thread took me by surprise. I just wanted to say that you're very brave for coming out and being true to yourself as a transgendered male. It probably took a lot of courage to do so because then you open yourself up to possible criticism and rejection. I hope your operation goes well so you can live in the body you were meant to be in. And you never know, you might just be a role model for another transgender who comes across your thread or blog. Good luck.

Congrats on becoming a moderator, too, and I like your new avatar. ;)

Hugs,

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Postby twistermind » Thu Feb 19, 2009 12:07 pm

YarlSoutan wrote:
Zahra666 wrote:
Good answer! YarlSoutun I thought you was more intelligent!



I thought you was more intelligent than to use broken engrish and then triple post like a complete nub. Use the edit button in the top right corner.


Sorry, I´m not very good at computers, as in many other things.
I haven´t got any personal againts you. I only expressing my opinion about I don´t like some things you show: f.e; hate, or superior air. But I´m sure you have other qualities.
I´m not being condescending I´m trying to learn how to be more assertive. If I sometimes, express anger with people, I sometimes pretend to show me as superior in some topics. I have many, many, many faults.
Ok, let´s time I considered the possibility to edit and deleted my message if I wat to do it. It´s my decission.
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Postby coldhands » Fri Feb 20, 2009 7:32 pm

Are you serious about becoming a women. :shock:
I find it strange that with all the post you’ve made you never once mentioned feeling like a women before. :?
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Postby coldhands » Fri Feb 20, 2009 7:48 pm

Where are you planning on getting it done?

How are you going to pay for it?

Are family and friends aware of your decision?


Im don't mean to sound critical im just curious.
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Postby Parador » Fri Feb 20, 2009 8:01 pm

I hope you are prepared - lots of people have trouble dealing with a person who has changed. I recall a story about someone who lost her job. The best thing to do would seem to be to move so people don't remember you as a man.
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Postby coldhands » Fri Feb 20, 2009 8:19 pm

Do you dress like a boy or a girl?
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Postby coldhands » Fri Feb 20, 2009 8:28 pm

But do you dress up like a women when your alone for fun?

Do plan on becoming a typical looking women after the surgery or a more androgeneous type look?
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Postby YarlSoutan » Fri Feb 20, 2009 8:45 pm

coldhands wrote:But do you dress up like a women when your alone for fun?


Oh please who hasn't done this before :?
"The mind is its own place, and in itself
Can make a Heaven of Hell, a Hell of Heaven."
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Postby coldhands » Sat Feb 21, 2009 4:02 am

YarlSoutan wrote:
coldhands wrote:But do you dress up like a women when your alone for fun?


Oh please who hasn't done this before :?


Haha thats true.

Well more power to you Asuka.
If you need assistance or make up advice of which I am very much into don't be afraid to ask. (being that we of the same dysfunctional nationality :wink: ).

I went through a similar phase when I was in my early teens where I wanted to be a boy but now im very much a girly girl but I still know how it feels and how lost you must feel.
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Postby dbx » Sat Feb 21, 2009 4:51 am

YarlSoutan wrote:
coldhands wrote:But do you dress up like a women when your alone for fun?


Oh please who hasn't done this before :?


I haven't... so guilty.
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