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Tolerant of other social minorites?

Yes
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6%
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Postby CriminallyVulgar » Sat Feb 14, 2009 11:19 pm

I'm pretty apathetic, as I am about most things. It's not because of somebody's beliefs or sexuality that I would dislike them. And just because somebody is persecuted for some random reason, doesn't mean they are inheriently better than the ones doing the persecuting. Minorities aren't saints because they are out numbered, if the situation were reversed they would be dicks too.
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Postby CriminallyVulgar » Sun Feb 15, 2009 1:13 am

There are always exceptions, but yea. It is just human nature. Do you know another way to explain it? Numbers is the only difference between the persecutors and the persecuted.
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Postby twistermind » Sun Feb 15, 2009 10:06 am

CriminallyVulgar wrote:I'm pretty apathetic, as I am about most things. It's not because of somebody's beliefs or sexuality that I would dislike them. And just because somebody is persecuted for some random reason, doesn't mean they are inheriently better than the ones doing the persecuting. Minorities aren't saints because they are out numbered, if the situation were reversed they would be dicks too.


The same here
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Postby Girl Disappearing » Sun Feb 15, 2009 10:00 pm

But i dont trust 'normal' people. I feel more comfortable with people with mental illnesses and alternative lifestyles.


Me too.
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Postby Parador » Mon Feb 16, 2009 12:16 am

It's really no big deal to me. There are some openly gay people at work. I don't know any transexuals. The ones that give me problems sometimes are Borderlines. They are very difficult to deal with. I understand that they are in a lot of emotional pain. But you can't let them walk all over you.
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Postby Hatake » Mon Feb 16, 2009 12:39 am

I'm tolerant for most minorities as long as they show me respect. My boss is gay which i have no problem with as long as he doesn't start hitting on me. He's the coolest old guy i know too. :P
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Postby Parador » Mon Feb 16, 2009 12:53 am

I know all too well how stressful dealing with BPDs are.Yeah you have to stand up to them no matter how they make you feel sorry for them.Of course not all BPDs are like the one I was friends with.


Yeah - I had a BPD gf when I was locked up in a psych hospital. She actually testified against me in court and I got commited for another 18 months! She moved 1500 miles away after that. Too bad she didn't move just a few weeks sooner.
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Postby JohnM7 » Mon Feb 16, 2009 1:05 am

I feel the most comfortable being around social minorities because I consider myself a social minority. I feel like they're more accepting of me the way I am.
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Postby YarlSoutan » Mon Feb 16, 2009 7:15 am

I hate minorities. They make me feel uncomfortable, and most of em are just as bad as the preps.
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Postby twistermind » Mon Feb 16, 2009 9:12 am

YarlSoutan wrote:I hate minorities. They make me feel uncomfortable, and most of em are just as bad as the preps.


I dislike people who hate. That is YOU.
And I won´t feel any guilty to say this to you!
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