Jeans/Denim Fetish

Sorry if this belongs in the fetish subforum, but I don't see the point in that if a paraphilia is more or less the same thing as a fetish. Anyways, when I was a kid I thought of jeans as a strange thing. For some reason, I would feel very uncomfortable wearing them, but I got excited when I saw girls wearing them. My parents were befuddled at my apparent distaste in jeans and they insisted that I wear them and if I didn't they would punish me! They never realized that I didn't like wearing them because they made me feel sexually uncomfortable. Like a normal person running around naked for instance. Later, when I discovered masturbating I started out trying it to regular porn for a bit, but I could never get very aroused through that. So, I just type in candid tight jeans or something like that into youtube and jack off to that.

This is definitely something that I need to fix, because I have very little desire to penetrate a woman. I would much rather just rub my penis on her jeans until I orgasm. Which is very selfish on my part and would only result in the girl thinking I'm a freak. My desire for jeans is so strong though and I don't think I will ever change. I mean when I look at a naked woman I still like it, but only when jeans are involved do I feel the need to beat the meat. I'm suprised that more people don't have this fetish, because jeans are everywhere in today's culture. I have no clue how this developed in my life though. It only appears to have gotten stronger. Just a couple weeks ago I literally stuffed my jeans with pillows to form an ass and then came on it.

This is really something that has been bugging me, because I have never told a single soul in my life of this problem and I probably never will because of my avoidant personality disorder. I know that one day my sisters will catch me wearing their jeans and yeah I just had to get this out of my system. Thanks for reading and if you have any advice for overcoming this fetish that would be great! Thanks.

I'm not really qualified to give advice on this, but have you considered getting some professional help. I'm sure it's possible to overcome this on your own, but it might be easier if you talked to a psychiatrist or therapist about it. maybe you shouldn't wear jeans anymore though.
try googling how to get rid of/over a fetish. I just did it, and a few things came up. Not sure how helpful they will be, but you could give them a shot.

I have considered getting professional help, but I'm too embarassed to tell anyone about it, especially my parents. I'll try googling for help though. You're right, I should stop wearing jeans, but it's hard because it adds to the arousal when I see a girl in jeans if I'm wearing them too.

well you certainly don't have to tell your parents. just say you have some personal issues you would like to discuss with a therapist. unless your parents are really intrusive I don't think they will pester you for specifics.
and there are a lot of things that I've never told a therapist out of embarrassment. and I'd really rather just live with them, because they're still people, and I know that in the back of their heads they are gonna be judging me. (but don't take me seriously, I have some issues with mild paranoia/delusions)
and I guess it has to do with the impact it's having on your life. Maybe if it escalates you'll feel compelled to risk the embarrassment.

Larooda, I know this reply comes several months after your original post but your story sounds so similar to mine that I had to comment. I also felt uncomfortable in jeans as a child and would avoid wearing them. However, with time, I realized that I loved the way a woman's rear looked in jeans. And not just any jeans... blue jeans in particular.
When I was 12 years old I began to enjoy wearing jeans as they gave me some unexplainable sexual pleasure. I soon began to to fondle myself in the jeans and one day I actually ejaculated. This then became my method of masturbation. I would imagine myself as a woman who is being groped and fondled and I would get off on that. I would also do the pillow thing just like you. This continued for several years then because of the constant feelings of guilt and the desire to be 'normal', I weaned myself off the jeans sessions and began to masturbate the conventional way. But I never stopped secretly admiring women in jeans.

I soon discovered Internet porn and was addicted for a number of years. But later , just like you, I discovered candid jeans videos on Youtube. The fetish just came rushing back. I can't get enough of it. I don't feel as aroused with anything else (Actual sex and porn) than I do watching a woman in tight blue jeans. Only difference is that I don't actually wear the jeans anymore. But the jeans fetish is back with a bang and I always feel extremely guilty afterwards and always vow not to collect the videos again but I always end up going back.

A part of me thinks it's wrong but another part of me thinks it's just who I am.

Anyway, just thought I would share.

Welcome papasmurf78,

Why do you think your fetish is wrong? It does not seem to be harming anyone.

I think some women wear tight jeans in the hope that men notice and appreciate how good they look!

If/when you have a partner, maybe you could ask if they would wear tight jeans for you on occasion? Some people love to dress to please their partner.

You guys should design jeans.
Do you think that is a bad idea?
How would you act?

tbh penetration is over rated... also rubbing on top of pants feels way more awesome. i could honestly live without actual intercourse., but i do it to make the bf happy

Sorry to bump this topic but I have a somewhat similar problem where a fetish has completely dominated my sexual life, now I feel like im not even that bothered about ever penatrating a woman or doing sexual things with her, even though I am very romantically attracted to women and I do get hard the odd time I have kissed one or hugged one.

What would people advise? Will this disinterest in sex go away once I actually start having sex with a woman? The thing is im nearly 25 now Im not sure if im set in my ways?

Personally I do not see that having a jeans/denim fetish is a problem.
I have had a Jeans fetish since I was 16 yrs old. And still it is my no 1 fetish.
I use to wear jeans that were brought from a local store not a branded name pair as know today they were basic denim pants made in blue or black denim, blue jeans had triple stitching on the seams blue jeans had white stitching and black jeans had green. Back then I thought they looked real good.
Levis came along after that her in UK. A DENIM JEANS transformation . First were the shrink to fit Levis. They were the 502.0117 bootleg jeans with a zip fly.
This was when my fetish first stared. I brought my first pair my normal size in the waist.It was recommend to by
The waist size 1” bigger and 3” longer because the jeans would shrink.
Eagle to try these out I got into my bathtub with them on with no underwear on and run the water.
After one hour in the bath wearing them, the water turning a really dark blue from the dye. the jeans had moulded to my body like a second skin. It was awesome.
When the jeans had dried the next time I put them on they were really tight so I took them off again took of my underwear them pulled them back on pulling them up struggling to pull the zipper up. After they were zipped up I stood and looked at them in a mirror. They fitted perfect feeling the jeans rubbing my hands over my second skin. I started to feel sexually aroused.
There was just something I could not explain . Just the feel of tight denim and the great look.
From that point on it was nothing but tight Levi jeans for me.
Over many years I built up a collection of these levis jeans, Levis started selling button fly version which I found to be better in the fact I could get the fly together better. As the jeans wear washed over many years, and faded and wore. They became more interesting and felt even better.
By now 50-75% of the public were wearing Levis jeans. The more I saw tight faded levis the more my fetish grew.
By the age of 18-20 I had 3 girlfriends, and I have to say it was there tight levi jeans that brought them to my attention in the first place as they looked so good in them. I am a very open sort person and never hid the fact that I had a jeans fetish. most girls did not have a problem with that.
By the end of the late 60,s/early 70,s Denim had swept the country in a big denim boom.
Patched worn denim, Flared denim jeans, bell bottom, very worn denim was the thing to be seen in.
Second hand jeans were the rage, shops full of old denim/jeans jackets coats hats,you name it you could buy it in denim.
One Saturday afternoon I was in Kings Rd London. When I saw 3 girls walking down the road in front of me one was wearing a pair of old levis jeans that had been made up from patches from other old jeans into flared jeans. I was mesmerized by that great look. The 3 girls stopped at a shop looking in the window, as I approached them. The shop had huge rage of old worn denim in the window. And I could see this girl pointing to a likewise patchwork jacket. So I stopped beside the girls pretending to be looking in the window, and openly said to the girl in patchwork jeans .That jacket would look real nice with your Jeans. She smiled at me and said .It’s great, I could not agree more.
Why don’t you go try it on then I said. She replied only if you come in with me then. I could not refuse. WE went in as her 2 friends stayed outside. I don’t know what they thought but I did not care. A complete stranger to me I asked. Her name.
We hit it off well as she tried on 3 different ones in the shop. I then picked up a 3rd one of the rack try this one, she pulled it on, yes that is really good you look fantastic. Ok I’ll get this one.
Being me and my fetish I said ok then I’ll buy it for you. Yes I did buy it for her. and from that day onward I had made a new girlfriend. As we had a special bond of having a denim fetish.
As a few years passed by we were in a very happy relationship, injoying our jeans/denim fetish.
I must now just tell you that we are now happily married, for over 25 yrs have 2 children now grown up and doing there own things. We also still have a very sexual life, still enjoying hot jeans sex fun. We still have the jeans which were from the time we met and now there almost in rags we wear them in hot sex without taking them off while having sex.
So this is why I say DENIM/JEANS Fetish is not a problem if both parties are up for it.
Like any other fetish.
Its just something that people injoy.