I'll update these posts as I find more info, but for now this a base outline of what happens, and how it's corrected:
Borderline Personality Disorder and the Inconsistent Sense of Self
How is identity diffusion established in borderline patients?
In order to examine the theory behind the principals of this internal separation of the self, wherein the BPD afflicted are left without a clear foundation of who they are, we must examine a few things:
1. Development of Ego, especially in its various defence mechanisms
2. Object relations theory and how that misshapes the developing ego by way of these defences.
3. Childhood abuses and their affects on identity perception.
4. Fragmentation, projection and transference as a result of an inconsistent self object view.
5. Differences between borderline identity diffusion and dissociative identity disorder.
6. Enter into clinical studies and research about borderline identity issues and their effects on the disordered.
i. Identity Disturbance in Borderline Personality Disorder: An Empirical Investigation; Tess Wilkinson-Ryan, A.B., and Drew Westen, Ph.D.
7. Examine treatment methods and their applied theories to BPD’s suffering from issues of identity.
Ego Development:
In order to examine the development of ego, I think it best to look at it through the eyes of the pioneering expertise of Sigmund Freud himself. Let us go back to the earliest stages of infantile development in the first 2 years of life wherein the original drive of the id is our soul means of communication, based upon an impulse of needs and desires.
According to Freud, we are born with our Id. The id is an important part of our personality because as newborns, it allows us to get our basic needs met. Freud believed that the id is based on our pleasure principle. In other words, the id wants whatever feels good at the time, with no consideration for the reality of the situation. When a child is hungry, the id wants food, and therefore the child cries, etc...
The id doesn't care about reality, about the needs of anyone else, only its own satisfaction. If you think about it, babies are not real considerate of their parents' wishes. When the id wants something, nothing else is important.
During the laps between the time the id we are born with and the forthcoming ego we will develop, other stages of development are taking place (according to Freud) in the psychosexual development of the infant. Although these things greatly contribute sexuality, they also hold strong roots in personality and identity overall.
Take for example the oral stage of development from birth to 18 months. During the oral stage, the child is focused on oral pleasures (sucking). Too much or too little gratification can result in an Oral Fixation or Oral Personality which is evidenced by a preoccupation with oral activities. This type of personality may have a stronger tendency to smoke, drink alcohol, over eat, or bite his or her nails. Personality wise, these individuals may become overly dependent upon others, gullible, and perpetual followers. On the other hand, they may also fight these urges and develop pessimism and aggression toward others.
Following the oral stage of development is the anal Stage (18 months to three years) where Freud believes the child’s focus of pleasure in this stage is on eliminating and retaining feces. Through society’s pressure, mainly via parents, the child has to learn to control anal stimulation. In terms of personality, after effects of an anal fixation during this stage can result in an obsession with cleanliness, perfection, and control (anal retentive). On the opposite end of the spectrum, they may become messy and disorganized (anal expulsive).
The development of the ego is thought to occur at 3 years old, alongside the phallic stage of psychosexual development (three to six). The pleasure zone switches from the anus to the genitals.
Freud believed that during this stage boy develop unconscious sexual desires for their mother. Because of this, he becomes rivals with his father and sees him as competition for the mother’s affection. During this time, boys also develop a fear that their father will punish them for these feelings, such as by castrating them. This group of feelings is known as Oedipus Complex. Though Freud disagreed with other theorists who believed the same development was in female children towards their fathers, the female equivalent of this process, called the Electra Complex, was established.
It is at the same time, as the child interacts more and more with the world, the second part of the personality begins to develop- the Ego. The ego is based on the reality principle. The ego understands that other people have needs and desires and that sometimes being impulsive or selfish can hurt us in the long run. Its the ego's job to meet the needs of the id, while taking into consideration the reality of the situation.
The development of ego is a crucial part in the development of ones own identity as well. Without well established boundaries of self vs. others many malfunctions in ego defences can take over the underdeveloped ego resulting in a splitting in object relations and an internal splitting of the self.
Thought the ego is something which we develop as a healthy environment and interactions are surrounding us there are standard defences in the ego, which without that stable environment can become destructive to the self and the overall development of ego.
The table for Ego Defences doesn't transfer into this web page very well, so I'll fixit a bit later:
Ego Defences:
Freud recognized 10 facets of ego defences and how they play a part in protective mechanisms for the developing mind:
DEFENSE DESCRIPTION EXAMPLE
denial arguing against an anxiety provoking stimuli by stating it doesn't exist denying that your physician's diagnosis of cancer is correct and seeking a second opinion
displacement taking out impulses on a less threatening target slamming a door instead of hitting as person, yelling at your spouse after an argument with your boss
intellectualization avoiding unacceptable emotions by focusing on the intellectual aspects focusing on the details of a funeral as opposed to the sadness and grief
projection placing unacceptable impulses in yourself onto someone else when losing an argument, you state "You're just Stupid;" homophobia
rationalization supplying a logical or rational reason as opposed to the real reason stating that you were fired because you didn't kiss up the the boss, when the real reason was your poor performance
reaction formation taking the opposite belief because the true belief causes anxiety having a bias against a particular race or culture and then embracing that race or culture to the extreme
regression returning to a previous stage of development sitting in a corner and crying after hearing bad news; throwing a temper tantrum when you don't get your way
repression pulling into the unconscious forgetting sexual abuse from your childhood due to the trauma and anxiety
sublimation acting out unacceptable impulses in a socially acceptable way sublimating your aggressive impulses toward a career as a boxer; becoming a surgeon because of your desire to cut; lifting weights to release 'pent up' energy
suppression pushing into the unconscious trying to forget something that causes you anxiety
(25)
When we look at these defences as compared to the mentality and behaviours of an adult borderline, it becomes very obvious to see where these ego defences are largely being used, abused in fact to the point of severe malfunction within the borderline’s interactions with others and with self.
Ego defences and their usage are not unhealthy; however, if consistently used at the wrong time or used too frequently they can become a destructive pattern of malbehaviour, and also have devastating impact on the patients sense of self.
Object Relations:
Freud’s next stage of personality development takes to the creation of the superego; but I think important to pause at the formation of ego and examine the principal factors of Kernberg’s theory of object relations before we move forward to the next phase of Freudian developmental stage.
Otto F. Kernberg, remains faithful the Freudian theory believing primary inner struggles lead to emotional projection which are largely centered around love (sex) and aggression. Kernberg’s main focus is on Axis II of the DSM, (personality disorders) more particularly the Cluster B grouping, which includes both narcissistic and borderline personalities. His excellent work in taking Freud’s theories beyond the phallic description into more sustainable/understandable objects (persons) is paramount in the understanding of personality disorders and malfunctions identity disturbances as a whole.
For the moment I’d like to examine two components of Kernberg’s object relations internalization, and structuralization; which theoretically stands by the principal that what a developing mind internalizes as its true self, reflected by actions of another ‘object’ (person), it then restructures internally on an unconscious level to become what the mind perceives as it’s true identity, and this external perception of self is what’s shown to the world.
Kernberg describes this in greater detail here, “Internalization of object relations refers to the concept that, in all interactions of the infant and child with the significant parental figures, what the infant internalizes is not an image or representation of the other ("the object"), but the relationship between the self and the other, in the form of a self image or self representation interacting with an object image or object representation. This internal structure replicates in the intrapsychic world both real and fantasized relationships with significant others... Object relations theories explore primitive defensive operations and object relations both in cases of severe psychopathology and at points of severe regression with all patients... Perhaps the most important practical implication of object relations theory is the conception of identification as a series of internalization processes ranging from earliest introjection to identification per se, to the development of complex identity formation. Each step includes the internalizing of both self and object representations and their affective interactions under the conditions of different developmental levels.”(26)
Taking the ego defences found by Freud and applying them to Kernberg’s object relations and their schematic development, we can clearly see the correlation between the external object perceived as ‘bad’ and the inner defences which protect the immature mind from negative emotional impact. What’s fascinating and important to note is the internalizing of this perception from the exterior ‘bad object’ into the developing internal self.
Use of ego defences like denial, regression, repression, suppression and intellectualization could be considered major component behaviours (internal [unseen] defensive factors) for reforming the natural creation of self image, and also a marked precursor to other protective strategies such as reaction formation, displacement, projection, rationalization and sublimation (exterior [exhibited] defensive factors).
Therefore what the developing mind sees as an undesirable person or behaviour it then internalizes into the still maturing ego and its own self image/identity.
Considering all the environmental factors are in favour of the developing child, these things happen and are quickly corrected by the assurance of love, attention, acceptance and support of nurturing parents; however if the child’s environment does not favour these positive interactions and reassurances the delicate mind is forced to compensate for these factors on its own.
Suffice it to say, a young ,unsupported subconscious (either by the child’s direct neglect, control or mistreatment by the primary caregiver[s]) cannot comprehend these changes on its own, and it is there where these persons run into malformed perceptions of their exterior world and internalize that negativity into themselves. Without a stable sense of the world around them, the child is also lacking in internal stability, thereby fractioning off pieces of that negative reality into a fantasy world of objectivity and goodness that it doesn’t have in its own natural environment.
The mind and identity become split from reality in order to protect itself from negativity by use of the primitive defences of the ego. What the mind is trying to do is keep the ego protected and intact, but the repetitive use of these protective factors force the ego to become ‘unsure and unsupported’ leading to chaos and self confusion.
It is theorized by Freud and Kernberg alike, that this is the definitive factor in determining ones sense of self and sense of others, for reference and reflection throughout the course of ones life. If this does not happen successfully, the ‘essential identity” is then lost.
A concept captured beautifully here, “At birth the human infant has no sense of self. He is Being. He is his being without knowledge or self-consciousness. There is no mental functioning yet. Slowly, through experiences of pleasure and pain, memory traces are retained, forming the first self-impressions (self-representations). As the infant starts taking himself to be this or that (this or that self-image) he separates from his sense of Being, because an image is not his being. As the ego-identity and sense of self develop and become stable, the contact with Being in its various aspects and qualities is mostly lost. The extent of the loss also depends on the adequacy of the environment and the infant's relation to it. The process of loss of contact with Being leaves a sense of deficiency, a state of deficient emptiness, as if the Being is left with many holes in it. The deficient emptiness is the state of the absence of contact with or awareness of Being. Space, which is the open dimension of Being, is lost in the formation of the self-image. This self-image includes the unconscious body image of having a genital hole. For the normal individual, the development of the personality happens relatively smoothly. The self is highly integrated and stays stable throughout most of one's life. In those with mental disorders, for reasons already known in depth psychology, the development of the personality and its sense of self is incomplete, or happens with various distortions, malformations, or inadequacies.” By A. H. Almaas (27)
After examining the root of self identity in the development of the ego through object relations and primitive defences, it’s easy to see how things could have gone wrong in this all important developmental stage of life. Because these things occur at such an early stage in life and development they are usually buried deeply in the unconscious memory of the individual, who therefore has no recollection or memorable association to the events which caused this malformation of identity and its corresponding maladaptive behaviours. In essence it’s fair to say that the malfunction happened so far back in development, that the afflicted person has no idea that there is any kind of malfunction present in the mind at all; because their life and themselves have always been this way.
Moving on from the phallic stage and ego development into the supported creation of one’s super ego, it can be easily understood why the super ego would not be formed appropriately if the ego has been damaged beforehand.
Ideally, the super ego is formed to keep a balance between the desires of the id and the understanding of others needs; derived from proper development of the ego by adding another layer of self control through means of morality and ethics. The super ego is formed primarily by our environment the rules, regulations, religions and direct reflections of our family unit and social structure. However, if the ego has malformed itself, during its most integral stages of development, the super ego will in turn be affected by the internalized instability. Therefore, proper morals, personal boundaries, self regulation of inhibitions and a hierarchy of core values/ethics, does not take a firm hold on the psyche and it instead becomes flux to both external and internal variables and drives.
So much determines who we are and who we will become, in the formative years of life (aside from any memorable, recollective, emotional trauma) that if additional trauma occurs to the now fragile sense of self, it holds all the more impact and damage to the individual.
More to come in add ons