Poll: Relationships with a BPD

There is a thread in the BPD forum that about BPD/AS relationships (It can be foundHERE.)

Have you had/are you in a relationship with a BPD?
Are you two better for it?
How did it go?

I am still ok although somewhat more scars then before i started.
It went like a ride on a huge roller-coaster.
It goes now like on a quit tiny children's roller-coaster.

Er, excuse me, but do you see the difference in questions?

In BPD forum...

Have you had a relationship with an Aspie?
Was it romantic?
How did it go?


Aspie forum

Have you had a relationship with a BPD?
Are you still ok?
How did it go?

Are you still ok? Are you still ok??? We're BPD not serial killers, grrr

Its a generic question. Emotionally, physically, economically etc.

I'm not really offended or anything. I was just playing. In a way it's quite sad, the fact that people are asked if they are still ok, lol. We are not all violent though - I haven't stabbed anyone. Yet.

Question changed.

Have you have? Have you had maybe?

On a more constructive note. Maybe women with BPD are easier for people with AS to read. As they tend to be unhindered in their showing of feelings.

moomin wrote:I'm not really offended or anything. I was just playing. In a way it's quite sad, the fact that people are asked if they are still ok, lol. We are not all violent though - I haven't stabbed anyone. Yet.

It's probably regarded as a 'high risk' type relationship because aspies can be easily overwhelmed. But highly emotional people can teach aspies a lot and vice versa so it wouldn't surprise me if the match was compatible.

TNSe wrote:Have you have? Have you had maybe?

On a more constructive note. Maybe women with BPD are easier for people with AS to read. As they tend to be unhindered in their showing of feelings.

grumble, anal retentive, grumble

sunstone wrote:

moomin wrote:I'm not really offended or anything. I was just playing. In a way it's quite sad, the fact that people are asked if they are still ok, lol. We are not all violent though - I haven't stabbed anyone. Yet.

It's probably regarded as a 'high risk' type relationship because aspies can be easily overwhelmed. But highly emotional people can teach aspies a lot and vice versa so it wouldn't surprise me if the match wasn't compatible.

Wasn't or was? From your construction of the phrase it should logically say 'was'