I had come up with an idea that had never been stressed within the community . Image.
Image is like this:
Image is an outside force comming into you. The pressure around you causes image to become a giant problem for those with self-esteme.
Imagine a girl who was having her first breakup and landed in psych. The person next was a women who had lost three family members at one time in an accident. Both feel suicidal. Who is more important?
They are both important. So why is the girl with her breakup so important and lands in a hospital and can be labeled as a psych patient for the rest of her life.
Image. It 's the most terrible thing. It says who we are, what we are, where we are goping and demands PE$ERFECTION, where no one could ever achieve. Such is the advertizing for beauty products and other healthcare products for both men and women.
What is real? The media tells you what you are, who you should be... how you dress, and your behavior...which is impossible to get because they say lies anyways.
A great realization whould happen to allow those plagued by self-image, leading to low self-esteme. Something should be done about it. As long as people sell products that make you envy your neighbor, people will be caught up in this. And, I believed a thread in the forum could educate both men and women to see better outlooks.
Problem... It doesn't obey site rules. It involves a sexual area and our forums are not about that. The reason I was given. Because they are forums! The site manager did not say, "It's in the wrong place, over here it should go!" The subject was inappropriate because this is a "forum."
In otherwords. Viewpoints on peoples sexuality are not discussed here. The are not appropriate. Men and women commenting on feelings of sexual nature, should not be done her... though a vast majority of Psych problems involve sexuality in a sense. Self-image for instance.
So, what is a forum? The only thing I can think of is that this forum not get into sensative subjects. If your problem is a sensative one, it will be gone... Because this sensative subject was abandoned.
Also the site gives great guidelines on what should not be done. Yet, there is not any mention of what the whole site is for...appropriate responses and even a preamble about why it's here. If that preamble was around... it would take the average Computer user hours just to figure it out.
So, for the moment. The site seems to believe that if you want to comment on a psych issue you are interested... only the "doctors" on site have the right to say anything to help you. The others, most of us...can only give you the, "I feel for you" messages.
And, if you have a topic that could help people and start it, instead of examining the topic to see it's relativeness, rest assured your ideas will be thrown away and froze by a moderator without questions, whys, understanding...and what must of us sufferers have.
NO more topics for me. Just "I am sorry"...I wish I could do more. Hope that somehow someone can help you...
It's the safer way to go than just get kicked off the site...
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