So, I'm ftm trans, and while dysphoria has bothered me for a long time now, recently it's been getting pretty bad. I am seeing a professional and we have been talking about getting me on testosterone and about having top surgery, so I am definitely getting somewhere, but summer break means she's been gone and we haven't been able to meet (though I will hopefully be called in to meet her soon now that the break is over).
The thing is, as stated above, my dysphoria has been pretty bad the past month or two, more than usual. I have been getting really strong self harm urges (something I already struggle with relating to other issues) about damaging my sex characteristics, etc..just brutal and graphic stuff I wont go into detail about.
I have been feeling just... so down and tired of it all you know? I have not felt ashamed or guilty or anything about me being trans as far as I can remember. While I definitely would have preferred being not trans any day, I've mostly just seen it as a bother to deal with as fast as possible. But its been really really getting me down lately, to the point of just wanting to end it all, as long as the suffering of not being right stops. Feelings of being a disgusting and delusional freak has also been very persistent.
While I mostly just wanted to get it out of my system, I would really appreciate people maybe giving advice on how you deal with it? Even just people telling about their dysphoria would be really appreciated, just knowing that I am not alone and that others feel the same way/have been feeling better after transitioning and that there really is hope. Also, sorry for any grammar mistakes made, english is not my first language. Have a good day/night
