A person with avoidant personality disorder may:Be easily hurt when people criticize or disapprove of them
Hold back too much in intimate relationships
Be reluctant to become involved with people
Avoid activities or jobs that involve contact with others
Be shy in social situations out of fear of doing something wrong
Make potential difficulties seem worse than they are
Hold the view they are not good socially, not as good as other people, or unappealing
Physical symptoms that often occur with social phobia include:Blushing
Difficulty talking
Nausea
Profuse sweating
Trembling
Social phobia is different from shyness. Shy people are able to participate in social functions. Social phobia affects the ability to function in work and relationships.
Some of the most common fears of people with social phobia include:Attending parties and other social occasions
Eating, drinking, and writing in public
Meeting new people
Speaking in public
Using public restrooms
Social phobia is also known as social anxiety disorder.
The primary difference between the two is that one is a pervasive personality disorder that will not respond well to medication because it is rooted in one's thoughts -- it requires talk therapies over an extended period in order to change thought patterns; where social anxiety disorder responds better to meds and doesn't take as long to treat as a personality disorder.
A psych professor once told me that no therapist worth his salt would take on a client with a known personality disorder because even if you help them, they may still file a complaint on you with the licensing board and will cause all kinds of problems for the therapist. Those with personality disorders seldom stay in treatment for the years it takes to improve their thought patterns and often end up blaming their therapist for their own lack of improvement.