retarded ejaculation?

I can not reach orgasm with a woman, normal sex just won't do it. I can ejaculate through masturbation with no problems. I just can not through normal sexual intercourse with a loving caring partner. I recently married and my wife wants children, as do I. She knew about this problem, and married me anyway. Erections are no problem, and I just keep going until I am exausted, no ejaculation though. Any help?

Hi there. Have you tried getting any sex therapy for your problem? How long does it usually take you to blow when you're masturbating? One thing you can try is to masturbate when you and your wife are in bed and ready for sex. So, while kneeling between her legs, you start beating it like it owes you money. When you're close to cumming, you switch to your wife and orgasm inside her. You have to keep doing this. You have to slowly increase the time before orgasm while penetrating her. Do you understand what I mean? This might help if your issue is related to anxiety of some sort.

Example:

masturbate. you're on the verge of orgasm. penetrate your wife and cum inside her.

masturbate. you're 5 seconds from orgasm. penetrate and orgasm.

masturbate. you're 10 seconds from orgasm. penetrate and orgasm.

Keep increasing the time away from orgasm in that manner. You'll eventually get to the point where you can orgasm with normal sex.

Hmm not sure if sensate therapy is all that effective but anything is worth a shot.

is it working pjc???what is the out come..im soo curious...hmmm