Scared to death to have sex ever since I was 15...

When I was 14-15 I had sex with my GF for 10-20 minutes at a time, ALL the time, and I would make her orgasm 5-10 times. I was put on Prozac (and Adderall) at 15 all the way until I was 18 (and smoked heavy amounts of marijuana, and regret it). Now, at 20, I have had sex with 2 other girls since and I failed miserably both times, once at 17/18 and once at 20. By "failing" I mean I could barley get an erection, and IF I got one it would be only half an erection and I would ejaculate in a minute or less. It was so embarassing because the girls didnt get ANY pleasure...

I read prozac causes "gonadal atrophy" in boys causing "problems in puberty and sexual activity later in life" I feel like prozac and adderall fried my body, brain, and sexual organs, as I hit puberty very late...

Did this happen to me? My penis is just under 6 inches and thats partially why Im so scared to have sex... because Im worried Ill be too small to please the girl and they will be used to 7+ inch penises... Am I too small?

How can I get back to be able to have sex the way I did at 14-15? I feel like I wont be able to have sex ever again... I have turned down quite a few girls that I almost loved because I was too scared to have sex with them because of my sense of non-masculinity...

I need help; I would appreciate any advice, info, or experiences from yall

Hi,

It's unfortunate but - yeh - some medications can interfere with the sexual organs and/or sex-drive. I have been taking an anti-depressant for 4+ years and it has virtually zapped my sex-drive. I'm now not taking the anti-depressant because I want my sex-drive back... ...I want to enjoy the feeling of liking girls in that way again.

I or anyone else here can't say if this is what has happened in your case. You'll have to go back to the doctor who prescribed the medication to you to talk about it, okay?

Kevin

.........i am 4.5 let that be your motivation booster

You are not too small. You're in the average range. And that means that most women you'll run into will have experience with guys just like you.

I think it is sad that you've had the other problems you've had and I suspect that you can do something about them. But the one about being afraid because of your penis size is something you can discard.

All of those stupid messages that men are being fed about size and performance are nonsense. Being a kind, patient and attentive lover is so much more important than size.