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Micropenis logistics

Postby AiryL » Sun Aug 12, 2018 2:49 pm

Heya! First time poster who could use some advice on a touchy topic (pun intended!)

I ama 26 year old woman who recently became intimate with a new partner. I was really surprised to find that he has a micropenis, in the true sense of the word- probably about 1.5 inches erect. I have had a crush on him forever, and honestly I was so charged up and turned on to be in bed with him in the first place, that I wasn’t put off at all, just surprised. I figured there was no sense in beating around the bush, so I straight up asked him to show me how he liked it (without making specific reference to his size.) He flipped me over into “doggy style” position, which would have been fine except for the mechanics. He kept sort of slipping out, so it seemed like we were more just awkwardly bonking into each other, lol. Then we switched to missionary, which was pretty great for me, but I can’t imagine it was working for him. He was *ahem* getting to the spot that counts, if you catch my drift, but not truly *in.*

I ended up finishing him off orally. I love giving oral, so again, no issue there, but eventually I know we’re both going to want to just have regular sex and finish that way. I really like this guy and want to figure this out in a way that doesn’t hurt or embarrass him. Help!
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Re: Micropenis logistics

Postby Snaga » Sun Aug 12, 2018 11:31 pm

He's older, right? Think I saw that in another post? Shame you can't ask any exes...


Well I googled about sex positions for micropenis... Cosmo had some tips, don't know how good they are. Several sites mentioned switching to anal, which works in a small cock's favor. They all mentioned various variations on doggy & reverse cowgirl.

I reckon, as long as he doesn't get discouraged (sounds as if you just plain dig him no matter what- lucky him!) y'all at least have the fun of experimenting to see what works. Is he.. open about this? Did he just say nothing about it? I wonder how sensitive he is about it. Ofc he surely knows by now you're very into him no matter what.
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Re: Micropenis logistics

Postby AiryL » Mon Aug 13, 2018 1:34 am

Ya know, I was thinking about it, and there have been some signs along the way that he may be a little insecure about it. For example, it took awhile for us to get intimate. And any time we were even heading in that direction, he did sort of dodge the issue. We were making out one day, and I started to kiss down his stomach. He quickly grabbed me and flipped me over onto my back, and kiddingly told me to quit drawing attention to his “beer gut.” Needless to say, I was confused, but I thought maybe he really was self-conscious about his weight. He’s not obese by any means, but definitely a little chunky in a cute, cuddly way.

But no, he did not mention his penis size at any point. I don’t know if i’m reading too much into things in hindsight, but it did seem like he had this moment of tensing up when we were both finally naked. I didn’t know what to say- saying something “reassuring” seemed super awkward and placating. There was definitely this quick silence, and then I quickly filled it by saying, “I have wanted to **** your brains out for soooo long.” True dat- he is my superior at work, so getting to this point was a bit messy anyway. Maybe it was a bit of a lament too, since at that point, I wasn’t sure if we were going to be able to do anything!
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Re: Micropenis logistics

Postby Snaga » Mon Aug 13, 2018 1:56 am

I reckon for him that moment is one that can be full of tension. Is she going to be all right with me? Or is she gonna laugh at me... I mean I know guys can be insecure, I'mma guy. But something that size, yeah that would be a bit tense, waiting to see what she's gonna do.

I'm not sure how you talk openly about how best to have fun, without knowing how matter-of-fact he can be about it. If he'd actually brought it up himself or asked how you felt about it, then it'd be easier, wouldn't it? If you don't think you can bring up what works best, then I think if it were me I'd google and just get experimentative.
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Re: Micropenis logistics

Postby AiryL » Mon Aug 13, 2018 3:51 am

Yep, for now it will be all about the almighty Google search. I was a little taken aback to see that some/lots of guys in this situation are turned on by humiliation?! Again, it’s a little early on to know if that holds true for him, but honestly I’d have a tough time with that. I’d be too freaked out about accidentally saying something that would actually hurt him and our relationship.

I can’t believe some of the stories about women openly laughing at guys and/or just getting up and leaving! How mean is that?! It makes me wonder if anything like that ever happened to him :(
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Re: Micropenis logistics

Postby Snaga » Mon Aug 13, 2018 10:56 pm

I've seen guys online who like being humiliated that way, yes. Like you, I'd be scared of going too far with it.

I don't think much of anyone who would laugh and walk off from someone, for something they have no control over. If it's not working for you after giving it a go then how hard is it to politely turn down another date, right?
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Re: Micropenis logistics

Postby Screwed_Up » Wed Aug 15, 2018 1:41 am

Allow me to insert my two cents here, if you will, as a man who has a real micropenis. I'm sure he is very insecure about it and probably embarassed to bring it up. I've never had sex with a woman without telling her about my size first so it would't be surprised. I've had a lot of problems with sex and only a few positions work with me. It doesn't really matter because I'm so insecure I haven't been with anyone in a long, long time. But anyway if there is anything you or anyone would like to know, feel free to ask me.
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Re: Micropenis logistics

Postby AiryL » Wed Aug 15, 2018 4:27 am

Wow. Just...wow. Whoever came up with that old adage about the “motion of the ocean” was onto something. Because (TMI alert!) that guy just made me squirt like nobody’s business.

Okay, so it was actually a little horrifying, because for about 5 seconds, I was pretty sure I had peed all over everyone and everything. His reaction was pretty hilarious though- “did you know you could do that?!” As though I had just uncovered a superpower of some sort. Lol. I’m glad he liked it so much, because I wanted to crawl under the bed.

I know that positions continue to be a challenge for couples like us, so let me share our “strategy,” if you will: girl on her back with legs spread (the farther apart, the better-think splits.) Guy on top, additionally spreading her lips with his fingers while penetrating. Naturally, he will slip out now and then, but when he does, will glide right directly onto her exposed clitoris. The key is to keep the labia spread the whole time.

Oh and, I think I misquoted his size at first. After actually looking at a ruler, I’d say it’s maybe 2.5” at full mast. But OMG, what those 2.5 inches can do... :wink:
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Re: Micropenis logistics

Postby Snaga » Wed Aug 15, 2018 5:31 am

Oh, wow, good deal, Airy! :)

I will put in my two as a guy. I've had actual pee happen when going down on a girl, and I can't speak for all guys, but squirting or pee, either way, it's a compliment. At least, it is to me. Even had you peed, I can't see him minding too much...
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