Our partner

Tight foreskin ruining sex life

Sexual Dysfunctions message board, open discussion, and online support group.

Moderator: Snaga

Tight foreskin ruining sex life

Postby ronaldmcdonald » Mon Sep 22, 2014 9:23 pm

I am a healthy 30 year old white male. I am good looking and have no problem getting attractive women into bed. The problem is my foreskin is tight so when I am erect I cannot orgasm as my foreskin gets stuck behind the head of my penis making it impossible to orgasm. I can literally go for hours which is generally great news for the girl but frustrating for me. I always have to finish myself off by hand, using a tight grip, otherwise I would never orgasm. I have had this problem for ever but never seeked advice, but it has finally put me off having sex as I know I will not orgasm and it will just be awkward again. I am assuming my foreskin is too tight and I either need a circumcision or something to make the foreskin less tight. On the other hand I could be completely wrong either way I wanted to ask on here before I go to my doctor to see if they can help.
ronaldmcdonald
Consumer 0
Consumer 0
 
Posts: 1
Joined: Mon Sep 22, 2014 9:07 pm
Local time: Wed Jun 18, 2025 8:01 pm
Blog: View Blog (0)


ADVERTISEMENT

Re: Tight foreskin ruining sex life

Postby Ada » Tue Sep 23, 2014 1:44 pm

Does putting lube on / around it specifically help at all?
We think too much and feel too little.
 More than machinery, we need humanity.
 More than cleverness, we need kindness and gentleness.


Charlie Chaplain in The Great Dictator
Ada
Consumer 6
Consumer 6
 
Posts: 10623
Joined: Mon May 28, 2012 9:47 pm
Local time: Wed Jun 18, 2025 8:01 pm
Blog: View Blog (35)

Re: Tight foreskin ruining sex life

Postby ejoscar » Sat Oct 04, 2014 1:00 pm

No harm in talking to your doctor about circumcision.
ejoscar
Consumer 0
Consumer 0
 
Posts: 3
Joined: Sat Sep 13, 2014 12:53 am
Local time: Wed Jun 18, 2025 8:01 pm
Blog: View Blog (0)

Re: Tight foreskin ruining sex life

Postby Myotherlife » Sat Oct 04, 2014 9:15 pm

Or, possibly, a partial circumcision? See this web sitehttp://www.london-urology.co.uk/circumcision.htm for information. I was circumcised as an adult, prior to heading for Vietnam. It hardly rates as major surgery. My circumcision was "complete," and I was given no other option. I've often wondered if I'd be happier with at least a partial foreskin, but in the greater scheme of things I don't think that my sex life has suffered because of it.

Other
Myotherlife
Consumer 5
Consumer 5
 
Posts: 134
Joined: Mon Jun 23, 2014 3:06 pm
Local time: Wed Jun 18, 2025 8:01 pm
Blog: View Blog (0)

Re: Tight foreskin ruining sex life

Postby frustratedoldguy » Tue Mar 03, 2015 7:28 am

Indeed, see a doctor. It's a physical problem that doesn't have to be there.
frustratedoldguy
Consumer 5
Consumer 5
 
Posts: 119
Joined: Tue Dec 16, 2014 9:05 am
Local time: Wed Jun 18, 2025 3:01 pm
Blog: View Blog (0)

Re: Tight foreskin ruining sex life

Postby mjs149 » Sun May 17, 2015 1:00 am

I think I have a similar problem. My foreskin is also tight in that it hurts to pull it down over the glans. This makes everything feel tight and painful especially with a condom on. I have found however that stretching it out and leaving the foreskin down over the glans throughout the day has helped it become more comfortable. I think the foreskin can be stretched, and over time maybe it won't get stuck.
mjs149
Consumer 0
Consumer 0
 
Posts: 5
Joined: Mon Jul 29, 2013 8:28 pm
Local time: Wed Jun 18, 2025 8:01 pm
Blog: View Blog (0)

Re: Tight foreskin ruining sex life

Postby Valar Morghulis » Sun Jul 12, 2015 6:13 pm

I went through a circumcision 5 weeks ago because when erect my foreskin would be very tight and wouldn't be able to be pulled over the head of my penis, and during sex sometimes it would hurt. I've 'coped' with it for 10 years or so, but I finally decided to get my life on track and that involved things like finally seeing my GP about this issue. In the end I was offered to have my foreskin cut so it could be widened or a circumcision, I opted for the circumcision and I did have a little issue after my operation of the stitches coming undone after only 3 days, but now after 5 weeks it's healing great and I'm glad I had it done.

Just get it done, you'll wonder why you never had it done before.
It is sometimes a mistake to climb; it is always a mistake never even to make the attempt. If you do not climb you will not fall. This is true. But is it that bad to fail, that hard to fall?

Your thoughts do not define who you are, but your actions do.
Valar Morghulis
Consumer 3
Consumer 3
 
Posts: 76
Joined: Sat Jul 11, 2015 5:29 pm
Local time: Wed Jun 18, 2025 8:01 pm
Blog: View Blog (0)


Return to Sexual Dysfunctions Forum




  • Related articles
    Replies
    Views
    Last post

Who is online

Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 1 guest