jaus tail wrote:i hate quotes like:
1) when life gives u lemons, make lemonade
2) get over it
3) dont wreck your future because of your past
You might hate them- I don't care for platitudes myself- and I'm not saying I practice those things, but folks say them because they're good advice. It's either that, or wallow in one's own muck.
Don't misunderstand me; I'm frequently miserable. But I
do understand that to a partial extent, I
choose to be miserable. And if I'm not going to be
completely miserable, I have to at least try the above platitudes.
As I have in my sig line: Let it go. Eventually we freaking have to- what is served by beating yourself up day in and day out over things we cannot change? Whether it's our sexual proclivities, or actions that we regret such as the post this thread started with. It's did. Don't... do it again with him. If someone looks too young for you or potentially too young to be on the site, well then, move on to a different video partner. But you're not some sort of monster. What magic is involved that would make so much moral difference in another month when he's 18? I argue that you're being too hard on yourself.