I just can't get her out of my mind?

Ok, well I am a teenage boy and I've been home schooled basically my whole life. This year I joined a youth group and met a cute girl Chloe. They recently left our church to go to another and I see them personally now (her and her brother). I even invited them over swimming and had a great time and I think she was purposely nagging me about how cute this one guy was which was 17 and she's 14 probably to make me jealous.

Now, most recently I invited her and her brother to Six Flags with me and my family and for the long 3 hour car trip we sat next to each other. We didn't talk much because she is very shy but we didn't really seem afraid to rub up against each other. Every now and then I would talk or make joke and she would laugh or giggle but for the most of the time we just sat very close to each other and I think I even saw her looking at me when I was looking away.

When we got there she walked beside me, fell behind and followed and caught up again and sometimes walked in front me. Point, is she didn't leave me but 2 times to sit on the bench with her brother and go to the bathroom. The rest of the time she was near me. She wanted to sit next to me on all the rides but she wasn't able to on some. We even made jokes about saying we were dating each other and we had to hook her brother up with someone. Whenever I would say "Welp we're dating" or something of that sort she would smile or blush.

On our way back we sat next to each other again but the only reason why I'm so unsure she may or may not like me is because she is so shy and modest that even if she did like me she wouldn't know how to approach me. Her dad is crazy protective and her mom is too. She doesn't even have a cellphone. So I have no way to get ahold of her besides her brother but I can't do that because it would make him feel like the 3rd wheel.

Ever since our date at six flags I can't stop thinking about her. I get tremendous satisfaction about writing about her and telling people about her and become real excited when people ask about her. I don't think this is a mental issue just because love is apart of life but I really want to know how to make things work for us! I have a strong feeling she likes me but she is just so sweet, modest, and shy that she doesn't know how to express it and honestly, Im shy too! What should I do?

Teenage relationships can be tough. If her parents are over protective and that is your major hurdle, then make her parents like you. That can be pretty tough but in the case of over protective parents that is really the best thing you can do.

When it comes to her being shy it seems very obvious that she likes you. So be assertive and just tell her that you like her, that you want to date her and even ask her about how her parents would feel about that. I know this can be tough when you are young but it is what you have to do. If she really isn't interested in dating you, which I doubt, then at least you will know the truth.

Just remember that at your age girls don't really know any more than you do. You just haven't had the experience that you will someday, so take things easy and slow. When I was your age girls would go from being completely crushing on me to not wanting anything to do with me within a few weeks. It is hard to keep your head when you meet somebody and they make you feel that way, but heartbreak is even harder to deal with. Take it one step at a time, be upfront and honest and try to get to know the girl.

Since she is so shy, it would help if you asked her as many questions about herself as possible. Believe me, women love this. You have to be attentive to her, get to know her and try to build a real connection. It is easy to get a crush on someone but it is harder to build a meaningful relationship.

Are there any events which her church puts on that you could meet her at? It would give you more chances to talk to her, but also to get to know her parents possibly, which will help like Tufnel said. Depending on how strict they are, you might even need to let her parents know that you are interested and get their permission to court her. But check that out with her first somehow!