my girlfriend wants me to see a doctor...

we are both writing this post to ensure honesty on my part lol she thinks i may have a mental illness and I'm thinking she's probably the one, or that she has an artificial one caused by drug use, ie coke

so basically, she says I'm a selfish individual incapable of true love. she has trust issues because I'm good looking and wrongly mistakes my charism for flirting. i think I'm living, although passion is gone, I'm not selfish, i work full time while she doesn't, thus i like a break after my day.

she thinks i steal money from her because i sometimes wrongly borrow her debit card without permussion, but withthe intent of giving it back. also because uI've given her a lot too!

she thinks i want to control her and i think its her. she says I'm manipulative and i will always hiurt her feelings twice as much as she will hurt mine. she says in fact she's not trying to hirt my feelings, amd its only in my head. i think she's blind

she says i can't feel, or show affection, i say maybe, but i had a manipulative mother, which i love regardless, that when i was a kid, she wywud always hold hostage the things i like to manipulate me and thus learbed quickly to hide them.

she thinks I'm a psycho cause i will kick her cat off a table. i just can't stand animals where i eat. she thinks i have to stop killing animals for fun because i enjoy hunting and wants to take away the only place i feel at peace, the woods. yes, i don't have remorse for killing coyotes, deer, rabbits, but they are animals, amd i luke rge thrill of a hunt, feeling like a predator stalking his prey and ambush them for a kill. i see romance perhaps, but it is in our genes, men have hunted for millions of years. that doesn't make us psychopaths.

she's the one seeking drugs all the time, and when i bring it up, she says its to cope with me. i will do it too sice she's buying and doing it in my face, but I'm always the one saying she shudnt buy ib the first place.

i think she's doing it, so i am tired ar work and lose ny job so she can keep me by her side like a puppy.

aside from that, i don't think we really have illness, i like myself and think of myself as highly intelligent. the only problem is probably induced ny her drug abuse.

opinions welcome.

Hi, julio! We're not professionals here, just so you know. If you don't show empathy and like yourself a lot and think of yourself as highly intelligent, it might mean that you have some narcissistic traits or something (again, I couldn't tell you for sure). You're responsible for taking drugs, it's your decision and your action, no one is forcing you.
Your girlfriend might need to get her own life in order and stop taking drugs and get herself a job. Maybe some therapy might help you both. She could look for a clinic that helps people who have an addiction and anything else that she is dealing with. She could focus on herself right now and then see if she can be happy with you or if you can be happy together.

In my opinion, the best place for both of you to start is Couples Counseling. There seems to be alot of finger-pointing in your relationship. A therapist can help you guys work through those issues.

The thing that caught my attention most about your post is that despite all the flaws you discussed, the two of you are still together. I think there's hope for you guys.