Marriage/Happiness/Sex/Penis size/pre-marriage ???

I've met this really great girl that i've been hanging out with the last year. We are basically deciding to take our relationship to the next level or an "official" relationship.

I'm saving myself for marriage because it's something I believe in for many reasons (not just religious). She has been with only one very experience partner in the past, but we have agreed we will wait.

I will be vacationing with her on Maui for a week coming up. She has never really seen my body or my penis. I want to make sure I can please her in life if we are destined to be together.

My penis is only about 5.5 inches long and about 4.73 inches girth (about 1.5 inches across the top). Now with the length I'm not really sure how to measure, so the length could be from anywhere from 5 inches to 5.75. To me it just seems and looks really small. Plus I am a grower not a show'er, so flaccid it doesn't look impressive to me.

1. Does a flaccid penis matter in a marriage? Do wives like to play around with them or does it affect anything?

2. I want to just show her my body and erect penis and just ask if I can make her happy with what I have. Is this a good idea?
Or should I just never let her see until we are married? I want her to know exactly what I have and what she is getting. I am worried because she was with a really experience guy that in my mind I am thinking probably had a hugh penis.

3. How do I approach progressing with her and letting her know what I have? I just want to make sure I can please her in life.

EVERYTHING IS DIFFERENT PERSON TO PERSON. for some a big penis turns them on, for some romance turns them on, for some rough turns em on, etc etc. ITS DIFFERENT FOR EVERYONE, YOUD HAVE TO ASK HER.

not really the size of the boat that matters, more the motion of the ocean that matters.regardless of if your penis was 3 feet long, youll suck ass in bed the first couple times, like most everything you do for the first time. average Vagina is 5-6 inches deep and the most sensitve parts are the first 3 inches or so so your fine

Also its more about turning her on. Guys need 2 seconds to be turned on, girls need more time.

So 1) learn what she likes, what gets her going 2) spend enough time warming her up. And you will be fine. Only she knows what will rev her engine.COMMUNICATION.

depending on your morals, its always best to test the car out before buying it. Sex is a big part of most relationships, not hte most important but big enough to cause issues. IMO,Its the main reason you get married(and not just stay unmarried), so you can have sex without guilt(depending on morals). If your not compatible it wont end well.COMMUNICATION. if you dont want to do it before marriage talk about it, see what she likes and if youd be willing to please those urges. Some girls like some kinky stuff, some like basic, some do everything, best to know now.

IMO - id never get married without knowing im compatible with my partner. I dont plan on being abstinent after marriage so id rather know things will work out before spending all the money etc.

She is just so amazing and I worry I will not be good enough for her in life. I was thinking I could show it to her and she could tell if the size will be good enough to please her. If she is not happy with the size then we could just not take things further. She could compare the size to her previous experienced partner.

She said she likes it fast, does that give any indication of what type of penis size she would need to please her?

I understand, noone wants to let their partner down. but please read what i said. EVREYONE IS DIFFERENT. ask HER if it matters. if she says yes then tell her to grope you and drop your pants. if she says no then all you need to learn is what SHE likes in bed and get some experience under your belt. ###$ like rabbits after marriage and youll get experience rather quick.

some girls think it does, some dont. its a PERSONAL preference.

I personally think your making a bigger deal out of this than it is

fast just means....fast.endurance.

IMO,this is why im not a fan of wait til mariage sex. makes you worry about things you can solve after 3+weeks(or however long you which to wait).

She is gonna laugh her ass off at your micro-penis.

In all seriousness though you are gonna get married and this your only concern??

Socialretard wrote:She is gonna laugh her ass off at your micro-penis.

In all seriousness though you are gonna get married and this your only concern??

We are a long ways from marriage. I just get so worked up about my size. And she is so great I would not want to negatively affect her life. I want to know I can be good enough for her or what's the point in moving forward.

I just don't know how to go about finding out what she wants in a partner and if my size is good. And I don't know if letting her see it will help her know or not.

Unless your GF is a porn star or has a fetish for horse c0cks i think you will be fine.

Oh man...

As long as you are not pinky size you'll be fine. For a girl a lot of the sexual experience is about the foreplay. Learn what makes her tick. There are so make ways to please a girl and not only with your penis.

Also a girl’s body is not only mouth, bobs and vagina. There are so many different erogenous zones.

As long as you both talk and are willing to experiment….

And by fast she probably means you know Fast. Ah…How can I put this? Fast moviments in and out again and again BUT fast.

Maybe you should "study" a little even you don’t want to have sex before the wedding. It could open your mind to what sex is and how interesting it can get. Take a look at the Kama Sutra positions or something.

The ONLY thing less attractive than a pinky/pencil d**k is a man who is NOT ASSURED.

Son, you're going to have to invest in some porn, and learn what the deal is. I mean, I hate to say it, but don't necessarily compare your penis to the men in the videos, but PLEASE do some homework - especially if your girl was with an experienced dude.

Yeah, the Kama Sutra will help, but until you get the basics down, you're not going to be able to master any positions.

Seriously. You're going to have to get some sexual confidence. That is MUCHO SEXY in the bedroom, even if you're not THE biggest stud around.

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Your penis size is fine. It's really not a big deal, speaking for myself as a woman. It is totally how you use it. You seem to be over thinking this and that's okay, but I agree with the other poster - communicate with her about this and see if it matters to her. I'd understand maybe if you had a small penis but you don't, you're about average. Don't worry. Talk to her about it.