Ballroom dancing

jasmin wrote:It sounds like he's an ass and too arrogant to see sense. You're starting to see the light? Maybe you'll get over him this way.

Right, not everybody are in contact with reality, i much prefer somebody who is instead of a spoilt and childish person who thinks that everything is about him.

I like men who are offering and sacrificing something to their loved ones, whether that is money, time or passion. A man who doesn`t sacrifice anything to the one he claims he loves, is nothing but a piece of $#%^.

Yah, he's not treating you right. What are you going to do?

jasmin wrote:It sounds like he's an ass and too arrogant to see sense.

He is probably messed up inside further more he thinks that he has the capability to help everybody even people who haven`t asked for his help.

Yah, but that is not your fault, is it...

ahh ya know, the guy wants what he wants. seems he will take it from you...hm? perhaps just being in contact with him is a tacit acceptance, to him, of the validity of his manner.

johnbc wrote:ahh ya know, the guy wants what he wants. seems he will take it from you...hm? perhaps just being in contact with him is a tacit acceptance, to him, of the validity of his manner.

I kind of have to agree with this. He has told you point blank what his intentions are. He wants to flirt and screw around from a distance. There’s nothing wrong or malicious about wanting a casual relationship as long as you’re honest about it. From what you’ve told us he has been. The problem is that you simply don’t like what you’re hearing. I understand it hurts when you want more than the other person is willing to give; but you’re acting like he’s stringing you along and he’s not.

You want different things out of a relationship. I know it’s hard to resist someone you really like, but that’s what you have to do. He’s not making empty promises or hinting that he can give you more; it’s just not going to happen. You’re the one who keeps returning and as long as you keep giving him what he wants he will gladly accept the offering. I assure you he won’t shed any tears if you were to cut him out completely. He will find someone else to take your place (and probably has a few lined up already).

Thank you

Thinking, drinking(coffee) and smiling...hopefully this combo will change my life

Awwwwww (((((((Hallu))))))) You'll find a better guy.

jasmin wrote:Awwwwww (((((((Hallu))))))) You'll find a better guy.

Yes i will

Every time something happens to his life he comes crawling to me for back up. Mostly its regarding something someone else has said that has hurt his feelings. He doesn`t come to me with "nice" feelings, he comes with anger and resentment and then he expects me to sit there and take his anger. He pretends to be angry at me when he really is angry for his own situation.