Planning A Break Up

Sounds to me that with you trying to leave the THC you realize you have to leave the life style scene too. Believe me, it's easier to stay off when it's not right in front of you. And being with someone who doesn't want to stop makes all areas of your life uneasy. It comes down to you are the only one who can take care of yourself and have to act on tough choices.

I have the a similar delemma in regards to alcohol, knowing my bf and I aren't good for each other.

I'm quite happy with him, right now.
He's my boy! And I love him.

And this is why Smile does not make rash decisions.
My mind changes too much.
Unless I'm manic... then I'm all about split second decisions...
But when I'm manic I love Red an awful lot more than I regularly do.
And regularly love him a lot. Lol.
So...

I love when I'm pleasant...
^_^
Hehehehe....

I had a friend who made a list of all his accomplishments over the past decade; they were impressive and varied.

Then he showed me a list of the previous ten years when he used marijuana regularly. He didn't learn anything new or do much except put his time into manual labour jobs. It was sad to see he wasted his mind and time for over ten years prior to his quitting marijuana. It's really a psychological addiction to the stuff that occurs. People get hooked on feeling high and mighty until they come down and reality sets in again and they feel burnt out and yucky all over again.

I'd lay down the law for yourself and your boyfriend and make it so your lives are pot-free so you aren't stuck in that cycle of euphoria/downer whether it's just him, just you or both of you. It makes life dull, depressing and unproductive.

It's OK to party when we're young and get different views on reality, expand our minds, etc. but when it becomes a habitual dependency it really messes us up.

Jerril

It's not my place to tell a grown man what to do with his money and time.
I only do that to people I don't respect.
He's a big boy and he's quit before.
He'll quit again when he wants to, or he wont.

I don't dictate to my boyfriend.
I just try to be there when he needs me and tell him what I think.

If he wants to waste his life, I don't care.
I will have a degree and I'm just looking for work once I graduate next month.
I have my life and he has his.
Only when his life interferes with mine will I tell him what to do, or else.

I would just like him to cut down. That's all.
He knows... and we'll see how that goes.