Unsure what i should do

I made this topic mainly because i really am not sure what i should do now. I have been dating a girl for a month now and we have been just perfect for each other, it just seems like i have finally found who i have been looking for and i never want it to end. We got onto the subject of telling our pasts and what we have done and he biggest thing that she wanted to say was that at a party a guy who she was dating pressured her to have sex and she said no and she sweared immediately that she was and still is a virgin. Now this happened about 3 days before we really started talking. Now a month later her parents found out about that incident and she is freaking out which saying i should have told then so i could have taken a pill yada yada yada. And me not realizing at the time or not wanting to realize is that she did in fact have sex with this guy and that she lied to me. Now i am confused greatly now. I feel that she does not feel that she can wait for her true love which i hope is me just like i have and i also feel that she can't trust me enough to tell me things like this. Then i also feel a hate for the man who did this to her because i know exactly who he is and we even share a class together and i am not sure if i can hold in my hate for this man, no he is not a man he is a piece of $#%^. She is 18 but her parents are still worried about her and they are taking her to a doctor. I am in a kind of fear that if i break it off now that she will spiral down into what i actually brought her out of. When we first started talking she was very depressed and i had no idea at the time why and she was saying that she had no were else to go so i said stay in it for me.

HI sivad,

I think she need someone who can help her and be with her. She is depressed, i think so. It is good her parents are with her and taking her to doctors. Just give her support and listen whenever she wants to talk.

But exactly what do you want to do? DO you talk with her now or stopped for a while? If it is stopped, then may be she doesn't want to hurt you or may be for some reason.

Ravine wrote:HI sivad,

I think she need someone who can help her and be with her. She is depressed, i think so. It is good her parents are with her and taking her to doctors. Just give her support and listen whenever she wants to talk.

But exactly what do you want to do? DO you talk with her now or stopped for a while? If it is stopped, then may be she doesn't want to hurt you or may be for some reason.

Well she told me this today and so this is all pretty new, but i think i have figure out what i want to do just by venting. I am going to stick by her and help her through it no matter what. I have defiantly changed my mood and my train of though. Before I felt like i had been betrayed before but now i feel more like that is the reason why i met her and why i got to know her more when i did and it is my job now to comfort her because the scum who did it to her is more interested in finding another than taking care of her.