feeling blown off

I moved my friend on sept 14th. My best buddy helped with the move then and I havn't seen him or the friend I moved or my other friend that was there since then.

With him he's swamped in work and wrote me an email that he's not ignoring me, just that he's busy with his work and never at home when I call him. I've gotten ahold of him only once, to chat on the phone.
The other guy says he's busy with hockey practice. And her, her hours are going to be cut back soon, so she says. But lately she's telling me she's tossed around at different restuarants and booked for a little while longer. when I told her I couldn't get ahold of some of my other buddies she playfully teased about it and said it won't be forever, that she's not going to be busy all the time and she'll let me know when she's able to hang out.

But right now I just want someone to hang out with. Everyone calling me is my boss (3 times on scheduling) lol. My neighbor, (a cab driver) offering to drive me to work this week. I got hobbies, I'm growing tired of watching youtube videos all night, I don't feel like reading lately or playing Punch out on the wii. I can't find a hockey game on tv, I don't have my own dvd player so I can't
watch a movie whenever.

I know I just gotta wait but I feel a bit better talking about it.

HI tryingsoul,

Don't worry, everything will become ok. Just wait and see for them, When they are free and ready to talk to you, then talk to them. You have already this nice site, here you can share your feelings and thoughts and can get free.

First i am your good friend and i am talking to you.

Thanks! My guy friend finally left a message saying sorry he has been so swamped lately and that he should be off Thursday and Friday night (my bday is thursday).

i guess its not such a big deal. I'm 33 yrs old this Thursday so its not like I'm having cake and a clown, just a get to together was my intention.

the girl, who I like, called for a while to talk then mentioned how her brother's finace is moving down to her apt and she didn't want to put more money on her credit card and needed some other way to pay. The ticket cost came to $317, I was asked to help, but she assured me she was on my side and wouldn't let anything go wrong. I got paid back today $338, just over $20 extra as a thank you. But I don't care about the money, I miss her. She did spend some time after that asking me what I had been up to, how things were and that sort of thing. And that she would let me know when she has some time to see me.