I just don't know what to do

Im not exactly getting any younger and I still have no boyfriend and hardly any life
I was ment to be going out with my friend tomorrow night but she's canciled on me because her husband dosen't want me anywhere near her.
I only have one other friend but she never has the money to go out and also has a daughter to look after.
I hardly ever go out Im lucky if I go out 3 times a year.
None of this is my fault I can't help the people I have met in the past and what my friends are like or what the finacial state is. And I can't help if there married or have a partner so they won't be going out to find a boyfriend like I need to do
And now the friend who I was going out with tomorrow night is saying she dosen't want me there because Im always nosying round her house.
I've been out twice this year HOW ###$ STUPID IS THAT
IT'S NOT MY FAULT SO PLEASE DON'T BLAME ME I CAN'T HELP IT
I try and join things but it's all elderly and middle aged people so theres no one for me to go out drinking with or to gigs.
There is also no where for me to go where I can just go on my own because there isen't anything where I live

Hi again,

What do you like about going out? If your friend cancels, then you should be able to ring another friend, right? How many names are in your phone address book?; and how many of those could you call to go out with? Going out can be very easy, if you put your mind to it. I have only gone out once in the past 4 years.

Kevin

and thats the problem I don't have another friend to call

nightmareb4christmas wrote:and thats the problem I don't have another friend to call

So why not just go out on your own?

I will be moving to the UK soon. I will be your friend. I sure as hell won't know anyone else over there exceopt for my brother and his fiancee.

Now that's dedication!

You are very welcome to meet us too, Incorrigible. I keep thinking what it'd be like to meet you recently. I don't think that our dear friend nightmareb4christmas would mind if you tagged along too. In fact, why ot invite all 20,000+ members of psytchforums to some town in the UK for a big meet up?

LOL

Chucky wrote:You are very welcome to meet us too, Incorrigible. I keep thinking what it'd be like to meet you recently. I don't think that our dear friend nightmareb4christmas would mind if you tagged along too. In fact, why ot invite all 20,000+ members of psytchforums to some town in the UK for a big meet up?

Just say where and when and I'll team up.

Hmm, out of something that I was only joking about, something serious may result. You're based in southern England, aren't you? I will be in North Yorkshire for th next three years, but I have to go to London to meet a Welsh girl that I've known for a whil on the Internet. There's also another guy in Stoke that says he'll meet me. I guess we could all meet in some neutral city some weekend, maybe London. It's only 2.5 hours from where I'll be.