I wish my dad was like all the other dads

All the other dads in this world never want there daughters to grow up and leave home. I hate how my dad wishes I would leave home and I hate how he says me and your mum are at the age now where we just want to be aloan.
It's so unfair because no other parents think like that

plenty of parents are worse than that, i know people who were thrown out of their home when they turned 16. and there are plenty of people who get beaten by there parents

im sure its rough and i dont want to undermine how you feel by saying its a petty thing to complain about, but there are a lot of worse situations you could be in.

I also hate how my mum used to want 4 kids and then when she became a mother she found it too hard and decided to just have 2.

I was the 3rd child and I was an accident

nightmareb4christmas wrote:
I was the 3rd child and I was an accident

Not true, nightmare, you were a blessing. Make your parents realize that by going out, and making something big out of your life. I'm not saying you aren't a precious human being the way you are just now, I'm just saying your parents won't see it until you do something.

two_roads wrote:

nightmareb4christmas wrote:
I was the 3rd child and I was an accident

Not true, nightmare, you were a blessing. Make your parents realize that by going out, and making something big out of your life. I'm not saying you aren't a precious human being the way you are just now, I'm just saying your parents won't see it until you do something.

But then Im stuck on what to do.

if you dont know what to do then go to a carreer expo, or something similar, if you start something and it isnt for you, then change. There are people studying with my who are in their 40's, if you dont try and find something to do with your life, you wont.

I agree. Even getting a college catologue would be good.
I don't think you're alone. I lived with my parents a long time. My mom was ready for me to leave at 19. It is natural that hey want things, just like everyone want things. Your parents are only human.
It would probably be good for you as well. You wouldn't have to hear them comment on you and your life.

Many parents are think like that and they thrown out from their kids from their house. But I think you are not alone. I know this is very bad thinking.

other girls have.

My dad wants me to leave home and get a boyfriend when all the other fathers in the world dread the day that thats going to happen with there daughter.

My dad never got upset when I started developing breasts like all the other dads do. And when I started my periods he just said oh you've started the rags have you Im glad Im not a women when all the other fathers would feel sad that there little girl isen't there little girl anymore. Yes he did feel sorry for me for starting at such a young age.

My dad also wears at me and calls me names and tells me to grow up when no other dad would ever in a million years say that to his daughter.

And no other girl has ever been hit by there dad like I have by mine.

You aren't the only one who has a father who'd love to see their daughter move out and be on her own, plenty of parents are like that- more then you realize.

Where do you get the idea that fathers get upset when their daughters get breasts? That's an odd statement, it's part of growing up, they know that- they don't get upset that their child is growing...
Father's do not feel sad when their daughters get their period, they know they are bound to get it- it's again part of life. I don't know where you get this information from regarding this with fathers. Also verbal abuse does occur in many many households, it's a common occurrence, doesn't make it right but you're not the only one whose dealt with it.

I was hit once by my dad or twice out of anger, never in the face.

You'd be surprised how many parents hit their child, again I don't know where your statistics from.

It's sad that he is still abusing you at your age, your at an age where you can stop it and you don't, or get out of the situation. If you have no place to go- then do your best to get another job, maybe get some assistance from the government, but there are things you can do to help yourself- but for some reason you refuse to take those steps.