I hate how my family tell me in a nasty way to get over the

things from the past. IM SO SCARRED BY THEM SO MANY NASTY THINGS HAVE HAPPEND TO ME

and my mother just says things like Im suprised your e'mail address isen't woe is me

NOBODY ELSE HAS TO PUT UP WITH THINGS LIKE THAT

Lol, that was funny!
If you are playing a character on here, like some think you are, and you insist on sticking around my advice would be to keep it funny. Like that woe is me line lol.
But in case you are serious, yes, people have to put up with much worse than that.
I'm sorta doin it right now

Sadly a lot of people are told this either by friends, family, boyfriends girlfriends... easier said then done I know... but the best thing to do is talk about it. People don't understand stuff when they've not gone through it themselves.

yeah and thats whats really upsetting me

and I have such nasty things said to me by people

I have too a lot in my past, all you can do is ignore them and know you are better then them... let it roll off your shoulders, it's not worth getting upset over.

Nightmare,
No one wants to be around someone who constantly talks about what isn't right, or isn't working, or isn't fair, or who constantly talks about their own pain.. all the time... on and on... and only talks about those kinds of things.

You seem to do that alot. Maybe you do this in real life too. That might be why your family says some of the things that you say they say to you.

I'd suggest that you try to have a day or even an afternoon where you aren't focusing on all the things that hurt you - but instead you try to focus only on the things that feel good to you or help you or make you smile or make you laugh or bring you a little happiness (like a good song or a pretty flower...). FIND things that make you feel a little bit happy, and talk about them too.

You need to see good things and talk about good things too, and not just bad things, if you want people to want to be around you and talk to you.

Because if you only talk about bad things, people will begin to ignore you and make fun of you, and avoid you, and want to get away from you.

Why not try looking for good things? You could talk about one or two good things here. Try it!

my family all tell me that

Well, if they tell you that, I think they are telling you the truth.
And maybe they are trying to help you get along better in this world.

It might bug you to hear them say this over and over to you, but I think it is the truth.

They might be getting tired of hearing you say negative things over and over, I don't know.

Maybe that's why you mum says that she doesn't want to hear you say certain things anymore. You might think that's mean of her, but I don't think it is. She might just be getting tired of hearing your complaints about no one picking up your luggage bags for you or picking you up as a little girl and saying the same thing about your neighbor girl. Maybe your family is hoping that you'll stop looking at life negatively and start trying to find some positive things in your life. Because no one's life is ALL bad.

If you keep only noticing at the bad stuff in your life, you're going to have a crummy outlook and you'll make a crummy life for yourself.

I know that if you started showing a little bit more happiness (even just a little bit) on this forum, it would be much easier to talk with you.

my family are also nasty to me because I get jelous alot

I also hate how my mother calls them petty jelous's

OK, I think I'm giving up now... Gave it my best shot.