I hate how my family yell at me about how it's time I did

nightmare, I don't think that has anything to do with the fact that they are gothic. instead, I think that it's just because they are more experienced at talking to people in general. This is what you must do: Become open to talking to everyone/anyone.

but all the people I seam to meet are all old

'Old' in what way? Nightmare, I'm still getting the feeling of utter 'lostness' (That's not actually a word, so don't use it in real-life situations) from you. You never say much about yourself either. Instead, you focus on your problems so much that we here have little to understand you from. I care for you nightmare, but please try to open yourself up to the world and 'branch-out'.

there old as in there are in there 50's and 60's and there may be the odd one in there 40's and lates 30's and there never goths or middle aged rockers

I myself am only in my 20's

Goths aren't different then other people, it doesn't make them any different other then what they wear or listen too.

Everyone is different, and everyone is the same.
No one is higher up on the chain then someone else.

Butterfly Faerie wrote:Goths aren't different then other people, it doesn't make them any different other then what they wear or listen too.

Everyone is different, and everyone is the same.
No one is higher up on the chain then someone else.

Never a truer word said... ...If everyone had this outlook, then we could live in much greater harmony. I try my best to hold this outlook true each day of my life. It can be difficult though, beause my natural 'human' brain sometimes tells me that I am better (or worse than others).

Chucky wrote:Never a truer word said... ...If everyone had this outlook, then we could live in much greater harmony.

hahaha, yeah we all see them being harassed on the streets every day right. The plight of someone who wears a black shirt, its tearing us apart...

And don't get me started on the jocks.

Black shirt plight? What does that refer to? If you take a snapshot of a street here in Ireland during Winter, you'll see that around 75% of people are wearing black. In fact, I remember being in Prague once and - looking down the main street - it seemed like absolutely everyone was wearing black there.

It has been 'proven' that people look best in black.

Chucky wrote:It has been 'proven' that people look best in black.

I hate wearing black. I feel even skinner than I already am when I have a black shirt on. I think I look better in pink, than black. It looks nice in contrast with my skin color.

Chucky wrote:It has been 'proven' that people look best in black.

cite your sources