Help Me Please

Hey I went over to my GF's house last night. Everything was cool at first (lately everytime I see her, she always complains about how I'm not good enough in some way) We watched a movie, and finally went to bed. She always brings up negative subjects when its time to goto bed. She actually told me last night, she said she isn't sure if she loves me anymore. She said its more like she loves me half the time as a lover, and half the time as a friend. She always psychoanalyses me too, its pretty weird. She only focuses on the negative parts of me though. For instance, the night before I was playing with her son, I dragged him across the carpet and gave him carpet burn accidentally. He went to his mom about 15 mins later complaining that I hurt him. I said sorry. Apparently I didnt say it like I meant it. She came down on me for this one. She says I'm very ingeunine with her 4 year old son. (I'm 23 shes 24) She also paused for a long time....and finally asked me, Do you think your a man? I paused, and replied, I think I'm a growing developing man. She just continued on with the #######4. She just started her period, but holy $#%^ man, I've never felt so....unnapreciated by someone. I've done so much for this girl, I just helped her get a job, I took her driving around and brought her to a spot where I thought she could get a job. She told me that night, OH you didnt get me that job! I could have gotten it by myself. She was living off her xhusbands child support check for a mere 600 a month. I know I'm not a perfect person, I have many flaws, and I can admit, I am very immature sometimes, I'm not the greatest communicator when I'm talking in front of you, I get really depressed sometimes too, and my mind overtakes me many times and I get stressed out so bad I say things I dont mean. I could name off all the wonderful things I've done for this struggling single mother going to college and working a job but I dont feel the need to really. I feel like the relationship is sinking fast, it could be possible this is all just from her period, but do women say these kinds of things to their boyfriends during that time of the month? Ive never been in a relationship for this long in my life (going on 4 months) I know I'm new to the game and all, but wow, she can be really hurtful towards someone who does so much. Maybe I've been too much of a nice guy...

Hey,

During their periods, I find that women can be more 'snappy' about things, but it's not as if they aren't speaking exactly what's on their minds. So, irrespective of whether or not she's on her period, her comments made to your face have some substance in her mind, and you should not discount them as irrelevant.

You're very young dude; and I'm 25 and consider myself to be young too. Do you really want to be involved with this sort of thing right now? This girl is making you focus negatively on yourself, at a time in your life when the world should seem like an oppulent place of great opportunity - know what I mean? The picture I'm getting is of her slowly wearing-away your morale, degrading your confidance. Don't let her.

Kevin