OMEGA Jealous Girlfriend PSYCHO

So I was at this party and my girlfriend acted insanely jealous the whole night. I wasnt even hitting on girls, they just were all trying to talk to me. I wasnt even showing interest in them. She ends up ruining the entire night for everyone. She starts arguing with me and tells me she doesnt want to be together anymore. She keeps arguing with me so I yell at her really loud. She gets mad and goes somewhere else. Now the vibe at the party is a very off. Everyone goes home and she goes back to my house where her car is. She cant leave because she is too drunk. I grab her stuff and put it in another room. At 2am she gets up and gets into bed with me. The next morning she gets up and doesnt say a word and gets in her car and tells me, if you want a slut you can have a slut. I told her I didnt want women like that and she said "yes you do". She drives off. I think this is the end between us until later that day around 8pm she calls to argue with me again about what happened. She asked me what happened last night and I told her she made a complete fool of herself. She didnt beleive anything I said. I tell her that I will see her in class on tuesday (college). I hang up the phone. She calls me early this morning and the first words out of her mouth arent even hello, its some babble about what happened at the party. I asked her why she is still thinking about what happened. I told her she broke up with me and to never talk to her again. She told me I was the one who broke up with her which is total #######4 because I was sober the entire night while she had a lot more to drink. The phone connection broke and she hasnt called back.....yet. Anyways, I'm in a weird position. I would like to be with her but then again I dont ever want to go through that again. I cant stand jealous girlfriends. I feel like if I went back with her I would almost be less of a man for giving in to #######4 behavior. but then again I really like her when she acts normal. I must decide what I truely want. Im curious though, Why is she still calling me back? If she wanted to be broken up like she said, and not communicate anymore, why is she still calling me???

Somehow I feel through her conversation that she wants me to appollogize for me having a good time and for her insecurities. That is #######4 though. I told her, you obviously dont trust me because if you did you wouldn't have acted out so much. She said thats not true. Then she goes and tries to blame me of making her look like a fool in front of everyone for yelling at her and telling her to leave. Shes trying to make me feel bad and lay on the guilt trip. I can agree that some of the things that happened last night, like all the girls that were trying to talk to me, and me having a really good time just having fun acting goofy and everything probably made her jealous, but seriously do you have to ruin the ENTIRE party vibe? If she had just been cool and controlled her emotions,
1. We still would have been together
2. I wouldnt have cheated on her

To be honest, I was at the bar 2 nights before and I had 2 women who wanted to have sex with me that night. I know because one of the women told my friend. I had 3 girls call me last night asking to hang out. I could have left and brought the women home with me, but instead I went over to my GF's house to see her late at night.

Anyways, what do YOU think about this? She has called me twice to argue about what happened the night things went sour already. What is she trying to do? Prove that I was wrong? I wasnt! Everyone at the party can testify that she was the one out of line. Is she trying to rekindle the flame between us? I dont know why since she told me she didnt want to be with me?

OH and she told my best friends while I was gone that she wanted me to go see a psychiatrist. They asked her "why"? She said I seemed down about something from my past. (I'm actually over it, Ive talked about the experience, but comming from my heart, I am over it) My friends told her they loved me for who I was and there was nothing wrong with me. Sure no ones perfect. Anways, I could use some feedback.

Hi,

I have had experience with girls like this before and fell into the same trap as you - i.e. the trap of continuing to talk to her when she contacts you. The best approach to take is to simply ignore her from now on: Don't answer her calls, don't acknowledge her presence in the corridor/classroom, and don't even read or reply to her text messages. At the moment, she and you are stuck in the rut of her contacting you, and you listening while she airs her frustrations and anger. Let her know that you aren't going to take this $#%^ anymore - the best way to do this is by ignoring her and getting on with your own thing.

She is behaving like a spoilt brat.

Kevin

Perhaps something is bothering her that she hasn't talked about with you yet. She seems upset and insecure about something.

To be honest, I was at the bar 2 nights before and I had 2 women who wanted to have sex with me that night. I know because one of the women told my friend. I had 3 girls call me last night asking to hang out. I could have left and brought the women home with me, but instead I went over to my GF's house to see her late at night.

Dude if you care about someone else's feelings then you

(1) Don't go to bars and hang out with women that want to go to bed with you, and;
(2) Don't have women calling you that want to bed you. You say "Sorry I'm seeing someone" and you let them go.

Maybe your GF is crazy, but I kind of see where she's coming from.

First of all quit playing her. Either end it with her or date her seriously.

I would suggest ending it with her because you cant control your d*ck. You are not man enough to handle a woman---which makes you less of a man in her eyes. Most importantly SLOOOWWWW DOWNNN. Reach down and grab your n*ts to make your manhood and grow a pair.

The ladies should come 4th in your life - they come after GOD, your job, and your hobbies. Because if you lose the girl---you still keep the things that mean the most to you.

trippyonsippy wrote:So I was at this party and my girlfriend acted insanely jealous the whole night. I wasnt even hitting on girls, they just were all trying to talk to me. I wasnt even showing interest in them. She ends up ruining the entire night for everyone. She starts arguing with me and tells me she doesnt want to be together anymore. She keeps arguing with me so I yell at her really loud. She gets mad and goes somewhere else. Now the vibe at the party is a very off. Everyone goes home and she goes back to my house where her car is. She cant leave because she is too drunk. I grab her stuff and put it in another room. At 2am she gets up and gets into bed with me. The next morning she gets up and doesnt say a word and gets in her car and tells me, if you want a slut you can have a slut. I told her I didnt want women like that and she said "yes you do". She drives off. I think this is the end between us until later that day around 8pm she calls to argue with me again about what happened. She asked me what happened last night and I told her she made a complete fool of herself. She didnt beleive anything I said. I tell her that I will see her in class on tuesday (college). I hang up the phone. She calls me early this morning and the first words out of her mouth arent even hello, its some babble about what happened at the party. I asked her why she is still thinking about what happened. I told her she broke up with me and to never talk to her again. She told me I was the one who broke up with her which is total #######4 because I was sober the entire night while she had a lot more to drink. The phone connection broke and she hasnt called back.....yet. Anyways, I'm in a weird position. I would like to be with her but then again I dont ever want to go through that again. I cant stand jealous girlfriends. I feel like if I went back with her I would almost be less of a man for giving in to #######4 behavior. but then again I really like her when she acts normal. I must decide what I truely want. Im curious though, Why is she still calling me back? If she wanted to be broken up like she said, and not communicate anymore, why is she still calling me???

Somehow I feel through her conversation that she wants me to appollogize for me having a good time and for her insecurities. That is #######4 though. I told her, you obviously dont trust me because if you did you wouldn't have acted out so much. She said thats not true. Then she goes and tries to blame me of making her look like a fool in front of everyone for yelling at her and telling her to leave. Shes trying to make me feel bad and lay on the guilt trip. I can agree that some of the things that happened last night, like all the girls that were trying to talk to me, and me having a really good time just having fun acting goofy and everything probably made her jealous, but seriously do you have to ruin the ENTIRE party vibe? If she had just been cool and controlled her emotions,
1. We still would have been together
2. I wouldnt have cheated on her

To be honest, I was at the bar 2 nights before and I had 2 women who wanted to have sex with me that night. I know because one of the women told my friend. I had 3 girls call me last night asking to hang out. I could have left and brought the women home with me, but instead I went over to my GF's house to see her late at night.

Anyways, what do YOU think about this? She has called me twice to argue about what happened the night things went sour already. What is she trying to do? Prove that I was wrong? I wasnt! Everyone at the party can testify that she was the one out of line. Is she trying to rekindle the flame between us? I dont know why since she told me she didnt want to be with me?

OH and she told my best friends while I was gone that she wanted me to go see a psychiatrist. They asked her "why"? She said I seemed down about something from my past. (I'm actually over it, Ive talked about the experience, but comming from my heart, I am over it) My friends told her they loved me for who I was and there was nothing wrong with me. Sure no ones perfect. Anways, I could use some feedback.

haha wow train wreck! she OBVIOUSLY has low self esteem and you just keep feeding that for her, good job romeo. and btw you don't need to list the numerous women that would sleep with you that you don't, lots of people go through this so you aren't that special.

what you should have done. apologized and said you were wrong and talk to her about how you care for her so much and wpuld never even think about other women. shes a women and believe me, the stereotype is true. Emotionally ridiculous creatures, who love to get their way and occasional like to manipulate. So if you want to keep her use my advice, claim your wrongness and her rightness. And if not having sex with other people is too difficult for you then have sex with other people, but don't do it with people she knows or sees at parties. and BTW you ruined the mood of the party by yelling at her. Yeah she started it but it was recoverable until you yelled.

Wow, I had to rewrite my post when I reread this part of yours.

1. We still would have been together
2. I wouldnt have cheated on her

So you're saying she feels insecure and then you go out of your way to prove her right to feel that way by cheating? I hate to tell you this but even the most secure person will feel insecure sometimes. In a relationship its fine to back down a little and reassure them once in a while, heck if you cared I think you'd have done that in the first place. So in my opinion all of the above is your error in this.

Her's on the otherhand, breaking up with you at the party kind of sounds kind of immature and like you MIGHT be better off without each other. There were better ways for her to resolve it, by for instance just leaving you at the party and having you call her. Yeah, she should've meant it when she said that but UNFORTUNATELY I can understand that as her just being hurt and not meaning it, but the way it turned out she ended up playing games.

You have no reason to get back with this girl, it sounds really casual and you could find any of those other girls you bragged about in your post to get casual with and have less, err, different issues.