Too much of a coincedence...

Hi,

I have had at least two girls do the exact same thing to me in the past, but there is no 'sneaky' way to obtain the number as far as I know. However, you can try contacting your mobile service-provider, explaining the situation, and then requesting that they give the number. Something, somewhere, in the back of my mind is telling me that they can tell users what the private numbers are that call them. I think I did it for something different in the past, but I'm not sure.

Kevin

Tell me if you manage to get the number. I'm interested to hear whether or not this actually works. Of course, the better thing to do would be to stop snooping around and just send a casual e-mail to the girl you suspect, and gauge what her reaction to you contacting her is.

Kevin

Chucky wrote:Tell me if you manage to get the number. I'm interested to hear whether or not this actually works. Of course, the better thing to do would be to stop snooping around and just send a casual e-mail to the girl you suspect, and gauge what her reaction to you contacting her is.

Kevin

agreed!

Your answer:
May be she wants to use you..
Just go off from this..
This is such type of wasting your time i think.

Yo, dude: Is this problem sorted-out yet?

Asuka wrote:

Chucky wrote:Hi,

I have had at least two girls do the exact same thing to me in the past, but there is no 'sneaky' way to obtain the number as far as I know. However, you can try contacting your mobile service-provider, explaining the situation, and then requesting that they give the number. Something, somewhere, in the back of my mind is telling me that they can tell users what the private numbers are that call them. I think I did it for something different in the past, but I'm not sure.

Kevin

Great thanks Kevin Vodaphone is my provider but I us pay as you go rather than bill pay. Still if I pull of a sob story they might do it for me. Not sure what to say though. I just have to find out if it was her....

I dont think that you should do that. It is manipulative and could get someone at that company fired if the girl that you confront complains. Think about the greater good: let it go.

Daniel

Train yourself to let go of everything you fear to lose.

Asuka wrote:Sadly no. Vodaphone are jerks! I can't email her due to the same reason I can't ring her....too many arguements in the past. Anyway
I'm sick of apologising and taking all the blame for everything.

Wait, you mean you haven't done anything about this? - Why not dude? All you must do is send her an email, ask if she rang you a few weeks ago, and then leave it at that. If she is offended by it, then does that really matter? Girls will be girls - they get offended easily over things.

Okay Asuka - I'm sure you know best what to do. I'm just intolerant of people who jerk me around these days, and if I want to say something to someone's face, I'll say it. If they don't like it, then I'll just move on and not care about it.

Chucky wrote

Girls will be girls - they get offended easily over things.

Jeez, thanks Kevin.

I have to agree with everyone else: as much as this seems to torture you, this is a road you defiantely don't want to follow. It's easier said than done, but you'll feel a lot worse if you get involved with this person any way, shape or form. My ex boyfriend tried it on me until I got so mad I disconnected all my phones and changed my email, and my friend Steven is doing the same thing to his ex-girlfriend, which is alarming to all of us. If she's a negative influence (and she clearly seems to be) you're going to have to find a way to drive this from your mind. I hate to sound trite but it's true: can you talk to anyone about this, even a therapist? And is it possible to find something positive you can go to when you start to (for the lack of a better term, I'm sorry) obsess again? I practice kenpo and throw people around, but that doesn't work for everybody.

It might take a while, but it'll go away

hehe, sorry kes. I probably shouldn't be making such generalised and innacurate statements. Many guys get offended easily too, of course. I'm glad to hear that you've done the whole changing of phone number, email, etc thing though, because I have done that too a few times to get away from nagging exes. I still see people who are being tormented by their exes and they just continue to talk to them and try to fight back, but that's just pointless.