by hamo » Fri Oct 17, 2008 2:38 pm
There is 3 billion women in the world. Out of those, there are few million women that are right for you.
However you have to do your part and go out there. It takes years of hard work to find a girlfriend (That is my experience, and experience of most of my friends). But you have to be out there, taking risks, confronting your fears and doubts and getting rejected. It is gut-wrenchingly difficult to do what you need to do. However doing nothing is not an option.
Each time you get rejected, it hurts like hell. If you only have 1% percent of not getting rejected, that means that you will have to, on average, get rejected 100 times before you find someone. It gets only slightly easier with each rejection, but in the end it is all worth it.
If you are interested, I can give you few tips and tell you what has worked for me and for my friends over the years.