keep having nightmares about breaking up.

so often i wake up miserable because i keep having horrible dreams about my boyfriend and i breaking up. we've been together about two years and i couldnt bear to lose him.

many nights its a dream about him not loving me and leaving me or finding someone else and leaving me.. and in the dreams he laughs about leaving me. i cry hysterically and my world crumbles.

i cant stand having the dreams and i have no idea if its normal or what....

You are probably feeling very insecure about the relationship and about yourself. The fact of the matter is, you can live without him and you can have a happy life without him. If you put all you eggs in one basket and expect this relationship to make or break your life, then of course you are going to have anxiety about losing it.

One way to decrease the anxiety is to decrease the number of expectations you have. If you expect to be with him for the rest of your life, then you're going to be disappointed if it doesn't work out in the future. If you go into it with the attitude that the relationship is good, but not necessary for your happiness, then you will be able to really enjoy it more. Take away the expectations and let it be what it's going to be, you will get more enjoyment and fulfillment out of it.

Mine was the same case till the time i was married to my love. Now I am married to him from last 5 months. And I am happy. You just do one thing - Know whether your boy friends feel like getting married to you or not. If he is serious then no prblem at all.

funny thing is... we broke up.