I'm ready to give up!

I hate it when guys claim to be all into you and how BADLY they want you and want to have sex with you and then they completely cut themselves off from you! I am tired of this $#%^! I had been talking to this guy named Jay for weeks and he said he wanted me so bad...yes we met online - on MySpace and he kept telling me how much he wanted to meet me! He told me about all his desires and $#%^ and I swear he was more into me than I was into him. I agreed and I wanted him terribly as well! So I gave him my number. He never called. So I gave it again. He STILL didn't call. He didn't call so I asked him why. He didn't answer! Now it has been over a week and no response. It used to be that he responded more than twice a day to my messages! I mean, if he lost interest or found another girl, why can't he just tell me instead of leaving me hanging! If he's busy, why can't he just send me a quick message saying "Sorry I've been busy lately" That is ALL he would need to say! I am just sick and tired of guys leaving me hanging like this!!!!!!!!!!! I am ready to give up on him! I don't want to go through another thing like this....and here's the thing. It says that he has signed in last Thursday and I sent him the messages on Monday! So, he obviously could have sent me something since then. It would suck if he didn't want me anymore. But what sucks the most is that he won't tell me!

Ok. Just had to get that $#%^ off my chest.

I am a guy and, although I don't act like the guy that you are talking about, I do know why he acted the way he did. Guys like to keep a few potential partners close to them. Thus, they will lie to each of them in order to keep them close. However, if he makes good progress with one, the others may be sacrificed.

Not all guys act like this though. It's horrible behaviour and I feel ashamed when I hear guys talking about girls sometimes.

Your time will come - Don't give up hope on 'us' yet.

Take care,
Kevin.

Oh no, I don't plan on giving up on guys altogether. Just that one. I can understand what they are doing though. They don't know which one they want, so to keep all of them around, they lie. That makes sense...although, like you said, it is not the best way to go about it. I just wish he would tell me whether or not he is still interested. If he did find another girl, I wish he would explain. That's the part that bothers me. He is not telling me anything as of now.

Well, if he is annoying you so much, then just erase him as a potential partner and move on. You don't have time to be waiting around for people like this who aren't sure of themselves. You will meet someonme someday that will be sure that you are the one for them. Don't hang around for this chap who doesn't even know which girl he truly likes.

Me? - I currently have no attraction to any girl. I have the strangest feeling that the next girl I do meet will be the one I end up with 'forever'. So, whoever she is, I'd like to meet her soon!

Kevin.

You were talking to this guy online only? And about wanting sex? Without meeting?????? It's WAY too early to be talking about sex if you haven't even met in person yet, isn't it?

Good thing you got it off your chest.

Nattjoik many people are cowards and not just men...They are too afraid to hurt other peoples feelings by being straight up with them,its sad the way certain individuals behave..I guess its a lose/lose situation,if you tell them the truth it will hurt them,if you skirt around the truth or avoid them it will confuse them and just make the hurt all the more worse when the truth does finally rear its ugly head and the truth always comes out sooner or later..I guess we are all guilty of this at some point in our lives,trying to save someone feelings by either being polite or just avoiding them as much as possible,its not very admirable...This guy youre dealing with sounds like a flake,I hope you are wise and you dont allow him to con his way back into your life which he will probably do if whatever is keeping his attentions now suddenly for some strange reason doesnt work out..I have to agree with Parador that you havent even met this guy in person and you are all wrapped up in him???All this technology we have is great in many ways however when it comes to love/relationships it is causing all kinds of problems and making people lazy amongst many other negative attributes...

Maybe he does want to meet you, but he doesnt want you to meet him... If that makes sense. He probably does really like you, but hes afraid you wont like him.
I met someone on the net that I am really falling for too. I want to meet her really bad, but im afraid that the real me, and the online me arent the same person, she'll be somewhat dissapointed when she meets me. Online, I can be funny, cocky, always supportive and encouraging and all these good things, but in person Im probably the most paranoid person you'd ever meet.

Maybe your internet buddy feels the same way?