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Can't let her go, What do I do?????

Postby scottg912 » Mon Jan 07, 2008 2:50 am

Me and my ex of 6 years broke up about a month ago, it is not the first time either, we have actually been married twice and have a 6 year old daughter. I haven't dated anyone else but she jumps right into another relationship with a guy that is much older than her. The past times she did this same thing and just as I was starting to get over her, they break up and she suckers me into taking her back. It is almost like she knows when I am about to start moving on and doesn't let me get to comfortable being alone. I feel like the only way to get passed this is to date someone else because nothing else seems to work, I am tired of the pain this causes me how can I get her out of my system for good PLEASE HELP!!!!!
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Postby zoax18 » Mon Jan 07, 2008 4:00 am

I don't think there's any quick way to get over someone. But there are things you can do to get your mind of the pain.
An example is right now, as you read this, think of your top five favorite movies of all time.

got em?

Well for that time, did you remember the pain you were feeling? The point is, keep yourself busy and before you know it you'll have a new life and maybe be over her. This thing where she keeps bringing you back in... have you ever confronted her and told her she did it?
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Postby jasmin » Mon Jan 07, 2008 7:10 pm

Hi, scottg912! Zoax is right, you need to distract yourself. Maybe dating again would be the way to go. Do push yourself in to anything, but get her off your mind and try to come to terms with the fact that she hurts you.
Please think of your daughter too and let her know that what is going on between her parents is not her fault and that you are still her dad and you will be there for her. Make sure she is being treated well.
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Postby scottg912 » Tue Jan 08, 2008 3:55 am

thank you for the replies. Zoax I have told her that it is unfair that she continues to come back after hurting me, I have been weak and I guess admitting that is the first step to getting over all of this. It has been a long hard road and I know that I will be relieved when I can put all of this behind me. As for my daughter Jasmin, I have custody, she is doing great and she is adjusting well. We have a nice home and she gets to do plenty of activities, go out on the boat, all kinds of nice things, I will make it through. My family has really started being around me much more the past few days and that seems to be hlping, spending time with the little one helps too. Thank you guys for yalls comments and support, it is greatly appreaciated.
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Postby jasmin » Wed Jan 09, 2008 10:43 am

It's great that your daughter is doing well! I think your family will help you get through this and you'll always have this place.
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