long distance relationships - pls help

besides regular conflicts that relationships have, i think distance is a major one, at least for me ... I've been with my partner for over 2 years now,i live in N.Y and she lives in Europe. we have a very strong relationship, but to make the story short, the past summer and afterwards, we have been fighting and arguing a lot about very little points, and usually they arise from me, because i think i am a little bit extra jealous... i just dont wanna hurt her, in a way, i want to trust her more, even though it seems like i want control, i just need to believe in us more and take the jealousy off me ...

I REALLY APPRECIATE YOUR HELP THNXX

Hi, But_why. I'm sure distance is a big problem for a relationship. I think what you need to ask yourself is why are you jealous. Maybe you just miss her and you need her near you, so perhaps you could take a little more time to be together somehow. But if there is a biger problem, you should talk to her about it and work it out. I hope someone can give you more advice about this and I also hope things work out for you and your girlfriend.

thnx again jasmin, i also want to say that , sometimes i feel like i want her ONLY FOR MY SELF, In a way where im not comfortable to think of her going out with friends, <<< this is sometimes a point that leads to arguments, negative discussions, and conflicts...

Maybe you're worried she could find someone else and this is why you are so possesive. I think you should try to talk things out when you both are calm and you could tell her why you think you feel this way.