Whats Up With Women

I married a woman who later became depressed, Cheated, Lie'd, ect.
Always I don'nt know why Idid that, I won't do it again ..
After finding another guy in my bed, I ran her off wth him filed for divorce that morning .. All after me takeig her back on other occasions beleiveing her lie's ..

Since I have meant several women the last ten yr.s ..
But all have been lie'ing *USER* women
And due to the training I received from ex-wife ! I soon spot the signs and know the game .. They get piss'ed when I say no !!

I wonder will I ever meet a woman who cares for me other then my wallet ?

I have just about given up on meeting a woman who is'nt trying to play me ..

jim 420,

Wow kinda hard to say on that one. I know that there are some women out there who will not lie and will want an open and honest relationship with a man. Honestly it make time some time to find one who will be that way with you. At least you have the insight from your ex-wife to know when the red flags come up that something is wrong. There may also be times that when the red flags come you need to confront the person right away and find out if your concern is correct or just a misunderstanding. It's a lot of work but if you are willing to do it then there is so hope. I know it is working with me and my husband. Hope it all works out for ya and that you find someone worth you.

ask yourself , do i attempt to seduce through materialism and/or providing "security"?

typicaly the trouble we have with our partners is trouble we have with our taste.

also , i like to think that it is important to distinguish between being used, and being abused. abuse is bad, used is often mutual.

She is remarried .. Cheats on husband she has now .. Came back last yr. over holidays offer'ed me some I refused 3 times before she stoped asking ..
And then she yelled at me I never change
U hod a grudge too long ..

I told her U caused me to lose most of what I worked hard for & then blew the 50 % U took from farm & eqipment sale to satify stae law of 50 / 50 no fault ddivorce law ..
I had to start over again ..

WHY WOULD I EVER WANT THAT OLD WORN OUT PUSSY ??????????

Jim,

You got a rotten deal, no doubt about it. It is also true that some women marry abusive husbands, and if they ever get out of that situation, it sometimes ruins their chances for a health relationship ever.

So while I understand your uncertainty about future relationships, you are the one who has to stick your toe into the water and see how it feels.

I am not being critical, but I hear some anger still in you. That may be a hard thing for you to overcome, but until you do, it is going to be difficult to find a positive relationship with someone else. Besides, anger takes up a lot of energy that can be focused on more productive things.

I truly hope you can move on past the injustices that you have endured.

Good luck,

N.

I worship Janis Joplin LoL ..
Meant her few minutes after a show ..
she was cool to us as fans ..
even gave me a fat joint LoL ..

I've noticed the same in MANY women. The nicer the guy is, the more likely they seem to cheat on him and screw him over. But if he's a posessive, miserable jerk, they just hang all over him and love him until the end of time. NO clue what that says about the psyche of many women in the country.
I really suggest reading the book The Myth of Monogamy. It goes into the biological foundation for infidelity. It won't make you any less depressed about the state of relationships, but might give you some closure as to why she screwed around. It really helped me realize it wasn't "all my fault" when my boyfriend cheated on me.